is it okay if i ask my crush for his msn/email and talk/get to know him there and possibly tell him i like him. he has no problem talking to me in person but i do cuz im kinda shy so is this okay? what do i do?
2007-03-18 08:56:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, MSN would be a great way to get to know him. You can also use it to make plans with him.
But no, I would not tell him online that you like him - that's impersonal.
If he knows you are shy and you tell him in person, it will mean that much more. You were willing to put yourself out on the line, and that's something to respect.
Good luck!
2007-03-18 09:01:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand about the shyness. I can talk more openly once I get to know someone, but its hard for me to really get to know anyone because of being shy. Usually it is them being forward toward me to get to know them. So I would say yes and ask them which I know it's going to be hard for you to do. So good luck on making a bold move.
2007-03-18 16:05:49 · answer #2 · answered by auntkarendjjb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its ok i guess but i think that it is better if you it face to face i mean you cant give a first kiss over the internet it will make it much more special if you look into that other persons eyes. I would wait for him to make the first move though that way you dont have you heart broken.
2007-03-18 16:01:49 · answer #3 · answered by futmexochoa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is a good start. Though, take everything really slow and try not to seem clingy or he'll eventually find out by himself.
2007-03-18 15:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd say it's perfectly fine- that way, you get to know him better and be less shy around him so it's easier to talk in person
2007-03-18 16:01:57 · answer #5 · answered by sangogirl8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think its totally fine. but once u get to know him a little better u need to talk to him in person a little bit more.
2007-03-18 16:00:15 · answer #6 · answered by elaina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to do that. But it would be better if you just give him yours. That leaves the ball in his court, so to speak. Next move would be his.
2007-03-18 16:00:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pixie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thast fine, but tell him u like him in person, after u get to know him online. u should feel pretty comfortable by then.
2007-03-18 16:01:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perfectly fine. It's a good start.
2007-03-18 16:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by s√(s-a)(s-b)(s-c) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats how i talk to ppl, any other way i freak out.
2007-03-18 16:02:50 · answer #10 · answered by Berny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋