For 3 months I've been in a relationship with this guy...sortave. We're just friends. I talk to him alot on MSN MSNGR, talk on the phone occasionally, and we text everynow and then...but we havent actually talked to each other in person...*to shy*. But we see each other at school all the time...
Anywho...He REALLY likes me and I REALLY like him (trying to avoid the overrated word of "love") He has asked me out plenty of time but I have alwats said no. I feel that I'm complete around him, but never myself. I don't feel like I can tell him dorky things or say stupid stuff or tell him 'I love you' without feeling fake...I always feel as if we have a akward distance...but at the same time we're so close. I've told him we probably need to move on because I do't think I'll ever feel like I'm ready to be in a relationship with him. but he REFUSES to...literally!He won't move on which is causing me to love him even more and non-stop think about him...
2007-03-18 08:52:46 · 7 answers · asked by *Breath* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
P.S.-This isnt a question...I just want your opinions and thoghts...
BTW- Be appropriate and nice. If you feel the need to tell me off. then DONT. Im tired of hearing negative comments that arent nessacary...bur serious...give what you think
Yes Im naive and immature so back off with thtose comments too;)
2007-03-18 08:54:43 · update #1
Well, he obviously wants to get to know you more. Just really try to be open around him and if it doesn't works, I'm not sure what to tell you. =/
2007-03-18 08:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there...I'm in your situation almost exactly, except I'm the guy. Anyways, I'm not sure about just how much the girl likes me in my situation, but I know she used to have a crush on me and we've been talking a lot lately. Anyways, I've asked her out before and she said basically the same thing you said. I've made sure to keep in touch though, and now we're going to start hanging out with each other and stuff. I dunno what's gonna happen but hopefully it will be good for both of us. I guess what I'm trying to say is this...I don't think you're going to get over him until you go out with him or even hang out together. If you guys like each other that much, I think it's only logical to get together. If he's really nice and likes you that much, I say give the guy a chance. Like they say, you'll never know until you try. In short, I hope everything works out for you guys. Good luck!
- The Master
2007-03-18 16:13:43 · answer #2 · answered by Logan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me start by saying that if a lot of people would give enough details like you to paint a good mental picture of the situation at hand. A lot of genuine people would be able to give a good feed back by way of answers.
My honest opinion on your situation is to think things through with this relationship; as you mention you are complete around him in one way. While at the same time never your self is a big ( Red Flag ) to me and you are prudent in seeing those subtle things and not building up his hopes by going out with him when you know in your heart you can't be your (self with him) and you can't say dorky or stupid things to him and not be judged or to be viewed with contempt.
Being able to be our selves with the ones we love is very important and i can't stress on that enough. You are very judicious in being able to see this and take the steps necessary to protect yourself and him without him knowing it.
2007-03-18 16:45:23 · answer #3 · answered by Premio 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
alot of people get close online,,,,but if you don't want to meet him,,,,find a new buddy to chat with. I think he's getting mixed signals from you.
2007-03-18 16:03:17 · answer #4 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your comforatble in this kind of relationship,then by all means continue this way..hopefully your friend will be around waiting for you to give up the pus SY.....LOL
2007-03-18 16:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i don't understan you....you like him a lot but u don't want to go out with him? why? if you like someone then you should go out with them.
2007-03-18 16:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
....I would at least give him a chance and go out w/ him.
2007-03-18 16:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by PerfectlyinLove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋