u see i yesterday i broke-up with my boyfriend, i have no idea what got into me, but we were supposed to go out the day after, and i really didnt feel like going, and i knew that he wouldnt take no for an answer, he would just keep on making excuses and we would finally meet up anyway. so anyway i was tired of this thing and i decided to tell him its over. he was devastated, and then i realised what a mistake i had made, because afterall he's a great guy, and now i'm dreading it so much, because i still kinda like him and i think that i have done a huge mistake, yet i feel that if i ask him to get back together again this thing will happen again. i have no idea what to do, and i have no idea how my feelings are, its so hard to say and so hard to decide. in a way i dont want to lose him. pls help if you can. 10x
2007-03-18 08:50:46 · 11 answers · asked by vallyazz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to talk to your bf about problems that's bothering you. I mean he doesnt know that what he's doing is annoying you...I guess you made a mistake on the break up because you were so confused about what to do. Next time you need to think things through before breaking up with someone over a small problem. Be honest with your bf, because trust and communication is key to a strong relationship.
2007-03-18 08:57:58 · answer #1 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, before you do anything, take a step back and make sure you know and understand why you broke up with him. Once you've answered that then just explain to him what happened and ask him to forgive your behavior. Now, if this is something you think you may do again just for "no reason" then why torture the guy - let him go. Don't play with this man's heart.
2007-03-18 15:56:26 · answer #2 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby Girl, call him, get together, and TALK (talking and communication are major parts of getting any relationship to work). You don't say how old you are (I'm guessing young... high-school or so); but having conflicting feelings is very normal about these things. Work it out... don't let one emotional episode rule the whole situation.
2007-03-18 15:59:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you broke up with him it must be for a good reason. I do believe you are feeling bad for hurting his feelings and mistaking that for real love. Really think about why you broke up in the first place.......if the relationship has bad problems, deal with your feelings and leave it alone!
2007-03-18 15:54:59 · answer #4 · answered by BOOBABY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax! the next time u feel that way just say u have 2 do something or say u don't want to right now, and hopefully he'll understand!
2007-03-18 15:54:46 · answer #5 · answered by Kelsey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a big situation, maybe talk to him like a empty room or when no one is around and tell him sorry for what happened, and say can i still be your girlfriend, and lets hop you lovebirds will get along fine, hop my tip works
2007-03-18 15:55:36 · answer #6 · answered by SilverStream 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How is that a problem??? Poor guy. You broke up with him because he want's to spend time with you? You are the problem...oh I'm so irritated right now....thanks a lot
2007-03-18 15:56:03 · answer #7 · answered by uuummk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whats the question?
2007-03-18 15:55:22 · answer #8 · answered by Mighty C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time, just tell him you don't feel like hanging out..
2007-03-18 15:53:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, grow up you tired sack.
2007-03-18 15:54:17 · answer #10 · answered by Pipe Grampa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋