She doesnt have a good sense of humor , she gets mad whenever i want to be jokeful or funny with her ,she gets a headache over anything that bothers her, like everyday mostly and i put up with a lot coming from her negative talk am i a good boyfriend?? or is there something i dont know Please HELP ??
2007-03-18 08:49:40 · 16 answers · asked by universe man 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
man,,, just follow your heart only time will tell
2007-03-18 08:57:34 · answer #1 · answered by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a good personand boyfriend. I understand that you are just trying to make her happy. You just keep getting shot down no matter what you try. She just might be a very boring difficult person. Its not you, she is probably just not your type. Not saying that she doesnt have anything attractive about her; but you both just might not be compatible. Personally i think thats kind of ungrateful when Im just trying to be a good person and make you happy, and you do nothing but be an asshole the whle time. If she's not even a positive person that can bring your spirits down after a while. Tell her what you feel, if nothing changes make a decision from there, stay and put up with the bullshit that doesnt even make any kind of sense, or leave and maybe find the person of your dreams, somebody that will support you. Either way you are a good guy for trying, good luck.
2007-03-18 15:59:56 · answer #2 · answered by thikingdomcome 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down and talk with this gal. Ask her why she's acting the way she is (she could have depression), and what you can do to help. If she doesn't respond the first time, just keep at it so she knows you're there for her. But if it becomes only too obvious that that IS her real attitude, you two may not be meant for each other. Good luck :)
2007-03-18 15:53:18 · answer #3 · answered by Kaylie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly, u need to sit and have a deep talk with your gf about all these problems that u have wit her. Let her know that at the rate she is going, the relationship might go sour or even end. I think u r being a good bf, bcos even with all the problems u r goin thru, u stick by ur girl so dont worry about that. If the "talk" doesn't work, then honestly, its time that you move on. its not worth all the work seriously! It will be time to end it. try the talk first tho =) GOOD LUCK!
2007-03-18 16:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by nouvelle_moi993 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that she doesn't like your joke or was it too promiscuous for her?
You are not compatible. Maybe it's time to move on. She sounds like my ex. Sorry - negative people always pull you down; and if you're happy - they don't like it - they want you to be miserable just like them. You are a good person by trying so hard - it's not your fault.
2007-03-18 15:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's constantly saying negative things to you...you're not being treated fairly.
If you like to joke and be funny you need to find someone who likes that too.
2007-03-18 15:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by ~*~Stephanie Dianne~*~ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should try out being as negative as possible for a day. if she is going to nag you again and again, despite if youre positive or negative, then this girl isn't worth your time.
2007-03-18 15:55:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think dat u r a good boyfriend but she is not a good girlfriend. i think u should dump her to find another person with common interests
2007-03-18 15:54:06 · answer #8 · answered by ESSJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are a good b/f for putting up with her...i think you should talk to her and let her know..and if she gets mad over it then i think that she's not worth it.
2007-03-18 16:05:43 · answer #9 · answered by KK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the problem? Everything sounds normal to me.
2007-03-18 15:52:25 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stop doing the things dat she doesnt like jst say wot do u want to do den she will answer ur question
2007-03-18 15:53:03 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋