Whenever I see a cute guy, something goes wrong with my brain and I don't look at them except casually, barely talk to them, and basically act like I'm ignoring them. I'm never this way with guys I don't like. Could someone please help me get out of this ignoring attitude?
2007-03-18 08:41:08 · 6 answers · asked by Kaylie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your problem (or at least part of it) is that you're afraid that these guys might not like you. So, to avoid the discomfort of rejection, you try to avoid contact. Or, maybe you think these guys are more attractive than you are. The only solution I know of is for you to just talk to them more. Good luck!
2007-03-18 08:46:23 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats life Gus, i've got been residing with it because i replaced into 14. examine my previous solutions in case you do not have faith me. All women/adult adult males think of approximately now's intercourse, specific i've got had my some distance share of it yet now this is fairly became into an severe. women want the guy who would not text fabric/call them because of the fact he's to busy or the guy who would not take her out because of the fact he's going out together with his friends.. why? Fck if i be responsive to, the hot project is women being controlled. I even tried this one with 3 of my girlfriends, I contacted them common for 2 weeks and around the third week they did not care - following the 5th all of them started texting me thinking the place i replaced into yet by employing that element who cares. this is all approximately putting in a 50/50, the two factors desires to put in sufficient look after another. fortuitously i've got got here upon that, the place my lady calls me while i don't answer her after an afternoon.
2016-12-19 08:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm the same way. I have stopped doing this also, as I have figured out I will never get to the guys I DO like!
It is really important to smile at these guys and start talking to them.
2007-03-18 08:45:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You probably are just nervous around guys you like. You ignore them so that they think you dont like them. Thats pretty normal, its a sign that a person likes them, when a shy person has a crush on them.
2007-03-18 08:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by =P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your not ignoring them,,sounds like your shy,,,next time just think of how you talk to your girlfriends,( relaxed, calm ), ask them hows it going,,,bla bla.
2007-03-18 08:44:52 · answer #5 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pretend you dont like them, pretend nothing matters it will help you be more relaxed, just think "its just a guy"
2007-03-18 08:46:31 · answer #6 · answered by Youll See 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋