I am d most caring friend, I do everything to cheer up my frnds and comfort them but when I need a frnd I am often alone.
I hv a frnd for whom I care alot but as I was feeling USED by her and BURDEN on her, I started avoiding my frnd but I dont like doing that. I miss her. Even though she talks abt herself only I feel like talking to her.
B4 it was difficult for her to talk to me even for 5mins but now she tells me that I can text her at any time and there is no problem to her she can talk to me.
I knw she realised that I stopped cring much for her but I only pretend like that. I care for her. She knows something is wrong but she is not asking me whats wrong with me?
What should I do?
I tried to busy myself bt still I miss her. We were v close and she has been a good friend, mayb she was caring too. bt it seemed like she had to put extra effort to do anything for me like to talk or text.
Do u think she is missing me as i stopped texting her i talk to her only when she contacts.
2007-03-18 08:37:22 · 10 answers · asked by lets_smile07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you and you friend need to do one thing before going ahead on life long path. You and your friend need to Grow up and stop playing games with each other emotions. You and her need to sit down and talk about how you and her feel about your friendship. And get over it soon. I would rather have a friend for life not a fake one.
2007-03-18 08:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your text here is hardly clear but I read it a second time and i got it.
You have a gift for loving and caring for people and thats ok, but this person seems to be draining you. It's frustrating to be the strong person all the time. Dont burden yourslf with this honey. Just continue to folloow your heart and be yourself. If your heart is saying let this person go then do it because you should nt strees and tear yourself apart over things you cannot help. Just pray that everything will be ok soon.
2007-03-18 08:47:14 · answer #2 · answered by Jason & Milly T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, well i know exactly what you are talking about, I've been there. I think the best thing to do is to tell her everything. She should know that you are not only her friend she should be yours too. She should listen to you when you are sad or you have a problem. And that your friendship won't work if she doesn't act and behave like a real friend. Good luck anyways. ;)
2007-03-18 08:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a new friend that wants to be around you, there are only about a million people in the world that need friends, if you are as nice as you say you are you can find someone different and she will too. Later on if both of you want to be friends again then that is okay to do. I think that you need to stop trying to be her friend and let someone be your friend for a while.
2007-03-18 08:54:13 · answer #4 · answered by Friend 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems like it. if you care for her you should get back in touch with her. tell her how she makes you feel and how you feel about her. tell her if she doesnt feel the same its ok but you still want to be friends if shes ok with that.
2007-03-18 08:43:36 · answer #5 · answered by the_syco_t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think ur both going threw a tough time w thiz u need 2 talk with her face to face about this problem
ps make sur she listens...
2007-03-18 08:42:10 · answer #6 · answered by chelsea bug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so i had been like this before i feel guilty to i just used her she is not so find someone u can trust at all times just try to forget her k
2007-03-18 08:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're being used. i think that you need to find friends who really care about you and don't use you as a free shrink
2007-03-18 08:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by cajin_dreams 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,,,she's using you and she's very selfish.She can't talk to you for more than 5 minutes?? who does she think she is. dump her
2007-03-18 08:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What did you say??
2007-03-18 08:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋