So my girlfriend of a few months and i came clean about our past. She was fine with me and I hers except once i started thinkings about it. She has had sex with 5 people before me, the problem being is that I know all 5 very well. one of them i work with every day and I go to lunch with him a few times a week as well. This really bothers me becuase now everytime i see those guys im going to think of them having sex, i know shes with me and not them for a reason, but what can i do?!?! I dont want to confront my girl, becuase its in the past theres nothing i can do about it, we are totally happily inlove together and our relationship is 110% trustworthy! And i love that! But i just cant get my mind past her wild side from last year??? what do i do??
2007-03-18 08:20:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
At least she was honest. My fiancee previously dated a close friend of mine and they had sex twice so I have to deal with it. You will get over that though.
2007-03-18 08:26:57 · answer #1 · answered by Martin A Neville 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone has a past. If it becomes a major problem that you can't get over you have two choices:
Break off your relationship with her.
Change jobs and cut all contact off with these other men from her past.
2007-03-18 15:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to live in the present and do not put yourself in that place. if you can not get past that it will damage your relationship.. why we need to know how many people have been with when they are single is a very complex question and you had better be prepared for the truth and all that goes with that info..
2007-03-18 15:29:26 · answer #3 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She obviously likes the sex with you better than with them or she wouldn't still be with you. When you start thinking about her past with them make yourself think about the last time she was naked with you. This should wake up your other brain and her past will no longer be of any concern.
2007-03-18 15:27:21 · answer #4 · answered by Cricket 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.. there's nothing you really Can do in that situation.. it's not like you can just Forget what happened between them. and if you have a 110% trustworthy relationship like you say then it shouldn't matter just like you say... but it obviously bugs you a little more than you are willing to lead on. but there's nothing She can do about it now.. what do you want her to do... i think you Know there's nothing you can do.. you just have to accept things how they are and once you do that i think that you've done everything in your power.
2007-03-18 15:26:04 · answer #5 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the past IN the past and move on if you love or care about her. Everyone makes mistakes.
2007-03-18 15:25:31 · answer #6 · answered by little Glo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a big man and not let this mess up your relationship,everyone has a past, but you are her future
2007-03-18 15:25:52 · answer #7 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it. she was honest
2007-03-18 15:24:41 · answer #8 · answered by igottadrive2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋