Should we get the dog or not ?

Question

Well, we already have 2 dogs in our family. A female yellow lab, and a male schnoodle (shnauzer poodle mix). My mom and I really want to get a chihuahua though. We found one that we really like...she is already neutered and is trained. The only problem is that my father will NOT get another dog. We want to just get the dog without saying anything to him...But, he will be very angry when he finds out. I say, we should just go for it. Too bad if he doesn't like the dog. It wouldn't be his responsibility anyway. I would like some opinions from you guys though. :] Do you think we should we get the dog, or not ?

I'm not sure if it is called " neutered " or " spayed " so I apologize if I was incorrect on that.

Thank you for your warning about Chihuahuas, but, we have previously had them in our home & we are alright with them. :]

Answer 1

you already have 2 dogs, so what's one more tiny itty bitty dog?

I say do it. If Mom's on your side, and you guys take care of the other two, then the heck with poopy ol' dad.

Answer 2

Well, we don't really know anything about your dad. So we can't really tell you how bad he will react if you just get the dog. I would say that you decide with your mom. If your mom thinks he will just get over it and it wont be too big of a deal then I say go for it. She knows how her husband reacts to things more then we ever could.
I had a similar situation with the new puppy I just brought home. Wasn't my dad with the issue, but my brother. It's different but there was still going to be someone very angry in the house. We went for it and he got over it pretty quickly, which shocked all of us. Once he saw the puppy he melted. It's pretty hard to resist a cute little dog like a chihuahua.
In the end you just have to try to figure out how bad your dad will react. Do you think he will get over it or hold it against you forever? If it's going to be a wedge between you and your father then it's not worth it. I know what it feels like to really want a small dog, but you don't want to hurt your relationship with your dad either.
Hope it works out for you!
-Brit

Answer 3

My thought is not to get the dog.

My husband doesn't want another cat, and even though a few FAB ones have come up in rescue, I'm not willing to put a strain on my relationship with him.

Caring for a pet needs to be a FAMILY decision that everyone agrees on.

You can't count on your dad's heart "melting" when he sees the pup. If anything, he will be VERY VERY angry that the two of you went behind his back and against his wishes.

Be happy with having two wonderful dogs and a complete family.

Perhaps try to place the Chi with a friend so that you can have play dates with her?

Answer 4

You know how he will react better than anyone, is he likely to demand u get rid of him? or just accept it! my mum arrived home with 2 chihuahuas once after my stepdad said no but he ended up loving them!! however if i ever did that to my fiance he would probably take it to the nearest rescue place! if u think thats a possibility then dont do it its not fair on the dog! he should have a choice on the animals that live their tho its his house too, maybe try getting around him a different way?
men are more likely to agree to things if they are left thinking that its their idea!! try and find a way of persuading him!
Do u know anyone who has a really cool chihuahua to introduce him to? it might sway him!

Answer 5

Why do you want another dog? You have 2 loyal pet members in your household already and I would think that they would enjoy keeping your attention and affection to themselves. If your father doesn't want another dog, then you should not get another one. If your father becomes angry because of the new dog, it will that anger and be very upset too. Dogs are very sensitive to human emotions. I think you should just love the 2 dogs you already have.

Answer 6

You should obey your father's wishes. If you really want the 3rd dog, you should futher discuss it with him and maybe make a "deal" with him that he finds acceptible. Ask him what it would take to make him change his mind and explain how much it means to you and be willing to make sacrafices to accomodate or willing to accept that he won't allow it at this time. Anything short of this will only lead to problems.

Answer 7

I think you should be honest and talk to your dad about it and find out why. Maybe he has concerns that are unfounded and you can teach him something. Maybe he knows that 3 is too much, as the 2 you have don't get adequate attention now or what ever it might be.
Talk to him and find out why.

Answer 8

hi i went through the same thing you did.my hubby hated chihuahaus,but my dream was to always own one.i waited till it was my birthday so he couldnt say no!! anyway we have had peanut for 5 yrs now, he loves her.he said when we got her that he would not put up with a yappy dog,so he trained not to bark,except when someone came to the door, i think you should wait for a special occasion,then pull his heart strings.then when you have the dog watch him get attached to it.i think every man needs a little dog...

Answer 9

your right,if you want it then get it if you live in your own home but a bit of advice- chihuahuas are really hiper dogs and a pain. so spend time with it first to make sure you really want it.

Answer 10

I was in the same situation about a year ago. i wanted a pet pig (im been serious) but my partner said no. So i went out and got myself a pig behind his back. He was angry at first but when he got used to it he grew to love it. I say go for it.