Hi... Im fifteen, and for a while I liked this guy. He was like my best friend pretty much and he liked me too but he had a girlfriend. He broke up with his girlfriend of nine months for me, and we've been "together" for about a month. But I don't really like things this way. I liked things better when we were friends. And also for this past month or so I've been talking to my other friend, and he recently asked me out... I explained to him my situation and how I was torn between him and this other guy, and he took it really well and told me that even if I didnt go out with him he would still be my friend. But I want to go out with him... I dont want to lose my current boyfriend as a friend though, because he's an amazing friend. And the fact that he broke up with his girlfriend for me makes me feel horrible about it. How do I go about breaking up with him without losing him completely?
2007-03-18 08:17:32 · 3 answers · asked by xxEquestrianxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That is almost impossible, just be honest and tell him what you wrote here.
2007-03-18 08:23:47 · answer #1 · answered by mysticalviking 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are 15... So much boy drama already, but I understand your dilemna. Dont let boys play you. You know who you like and what you want. The first boy told you he broke up with his girlfriend for you, but that doesnt mean it is necessarily true. He MIGHT be telling you that, to make you feel guilty or so that he looks so sweet to you and you cant break up with him. The truth is if he is really a friend, he woud understand completely.
You have to do what is best for you. As far as the second boy, he could be playing you too, pretending to be understanding, but then again i dont know him.
I guess am trying to tell you to look out for you, everybody has an ulterior motive. Dont be intimated or guilted into doing something you dont want to do.
Good luck, you are sooo young, but seem to know what you want already. Dont let that change : )
2007-03-18 15:26:33 · answer #2 · answered by Mx2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you just said, would be great. Tell him how you really feel and that you don't want to loose him as a friend. Coming from the heart is the best way to talk about your relationship.
2007-03-18 15:26:53 · answer #3 · answered by macloveskingtut 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋