I am Asian, how do I get a Caucasian girl to like me?

Question

I am a 21 year old college student. I am Chinese but most people think that I am mixed. In the past I have had many oppurtunities with Asian girls but unfortunately I do not find them the least bit attractive. I have been attracted to white girls ever since I can remember. However, I feel like white girls become standoffish towards minorities, especially Asians. I have never had any sort of friendship with a Caucasian girl before. Is there something I need to do to make them warmer towards Asians?

Answer 1

eh not really.
try wearing abercrombie, hollister?
hah. i`m not friends with any asians but it`s not bc of their race
its bc most of them are reallyy shy & i don`t really like that
but best of luck. <3

Answer 2

I'm a white male I think I can help with this one? You really need to put aside the differences for a second. Girls not just white, black , or Asians all like guys. From this point think about what girls like in a guy: Funny, mysterious, and some just like muscles. You already have the mystery part because she has never dated an Asian guy. The other 2 I don't know you personally so work on those as needed... Talk to her about your heritage, your family, how things are different, and how they are the same. Don't just say how you are different because then she will think you're weird. Most importantly tell her how you feel about being turned on by her. She will find it sexy and appealing at the same time.

Answer 3

Your perception of white girls may be coming through in the way you act, even though you may not be aware of it.
This will affect their behavior towards you, and what you have here is a self-fulfilling prophecy.

Women are women, regardless of race and color.

What you are perceiving as a personal issue from them to you, may simply be the way those particular individuals act towards everyone.
In other words, some of them are just like that. Not all, but some.
I'm a white guy, and trust me when I say there are plenty of white women that would just as soon sneer and knee me in the family jewels as just say hi. That being said, some of them are absolutely wonderful. I've found the same to be true from women of other races as well. Women find the same to be true of men. Some will beat them, some won't. Some are nice, some are not. Some cheat, some never would.
The dating game is a landmine for everybody, and the best you can do is to keep your eyes open, stay sharp, be confident, and not put up with any crap, but when you find that rare and wonderful person, make sure you treat them that way.

You've just got to sort the gold from the gravel the best as you can, and not worry about who they are and where they come from.

I'd forget the race preference, focus on who you get along with and like, and then, if they happen to be white and turn you on, then groovy.

good luck

Kevin

Answer 4

Here's what I do. Get tan, get lean muscles, get a good hair cut. I usually go for the shortest buzz cut possible. White girls are the only girls I know, not purposely it's just the area where I live. I run long distances and am dedicated to being the best and staying on top. If a girl likes me, it's because I'm dedicated. And because the lean muscle and slim body structure makes me look more muscular. Forget about race, I literally forget that I'm Asian and am not conscience about it at all.

Answer 5

Well, I am an Asian female w/ Caucasian male which is easy to find. I understand that for Asian men, it may be harder. Maybe you can find someone who is interested in Asian culture or you have something in common. I haven't dated any Asian male before, but I am sure you will meet some hot Caucasian girl who will like you beyond your looks. Good luck

Answer 6

As long as your nice and dont make it an issue they dont care. Theres and aisan kid at my school and plenty of girls like him becuase hes funy and nice and hes kind of cute and I'm a white girl saying this. But if you really want advice white girls like sweet guys like guys that call them up just to her there voice. All though universly I think girls want the same things.

Answer 7

Don't try to change yourself but be friendly, and don't worry about it. Many times I have broken my neck to try to get someone to be friends with me, but no matter how hard I tried all I managed to do was push them away.
Like yourself, be comfortable with yourself and people will gravitate toward you; the ones that will be real friends regardless of race!

Answer 8

that's rough man. I am in the same situation. you just need to make it known that you are fluent in English because most Caucasian girls will assume you don't know English and are too afraid to find out if you do.

Answer 9

I really don't think the color of the skin matters; what qualities you look for in a relationship;

I think you should be focusing on who the person is rather than their race...

Also, I think it has alot to do being comfortable with yourself as well, knowing who you are...

good luck

Answer 10

No, if they like u they will say yes. It doesnt matter where your from/your colour/or race. Mixed race relasionships happen all the time. Go ask her out if your ready.

Answer 11

Well if you've got a good personality, you should be fine. I'm sure girls of all races will like if you're nice.