I have been with my bf for almost 3 years. We were in the same state and I asked him to move in together, he said he is not ready. So I decided to move back to where I was from originally, for financial reasons. I knew I should have broke it off then, but he wouldnt let go, and we kept seeing each other, long distance relationship.It became very difficult for me to keep this relationship, as I slowly lost friends, I felt I was married to him but never could do anything with him ( because he is not here) and because my friends are gone ( he is jealous). He kept talking about marriage, and wanting me to move there. So I told him, propose to me and I will move. He wouldnt, saying it is either the money, or we argue too much... etc.. I became so angry w him all the time, b/c he wouldnt give me what I wanted, I wanted to be with him, and by his side,but he always acted ok with the distnce. I was the only one with the urge to be 2gether. Why didnt he propose if he loves me ?
2007-03-18 08:17:06 · 4 answers · asked by Mx2 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because he's not ready. He already told you that.
2007-03-18 08:22:05 · answer #1 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never want to get married... I know that almost 80% of marriages dont last, and it is always the woman that complains and tries to sue for more than half of stuff that she didnt contribute..
like K-Fed for example... do you think he deserves the baby, and the money? no... he didnt contribute anything to britney...
It is just dumb... I dont mind living with a girl or anything, but what is mine is mine, I am not supporting another person just because I want to...
Your bf is thinking that he can have you whenever he wants to, yet he can still see other girls... he is pathetic for thinking that...
Personally, I think you should get all the sex and stuff out of your system while your young, sleep with as many people as you can, then when you get in your thirties... settle down... otherwise, your marriage will more than likely not last...
2007-03-18 15:23:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm, tough to answer a question so specific without knowing the other people involved, but based on your end of the story: It seems pretty clear that he cannot part with his freedom for one or more reasons. Marriage is one thing to expect, but to not even commit to a live in relationship either in this day in age, would lead me to expect that your presence on a regular basis would infringe greatly on something he can't part with. What that is could be hard to say but is undoubtedly other girls that he "loves" too.
don't obsess any longer, move on....
2007-03-18 15:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Cronides 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably because he's scared but if I were you I would dump him because he's not at your level yet and he's holding you back. Good luck though.
2007-03-18 15:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋