Okay I've been talking to this AMAZING guy for 7 months... We've never met in person but we talk on the phone, text, and talk on the computer everyday... we can't go like a couple hours without talking. I'm in love with him and Hes in love with me (atleast he says so) but hes always so jelous and afraid I'm going to cheat on him. I tell him I love him so much and words just can't describe it anymore I wish there was some way to tell him how much I love him, but just saying I love you more than words can describe just won't work... I can't meet him yet, so Is there anyway to make him understand how much I love him????
2007-03-18 07:58:58 · 9 answers · asked by Sarah C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Although it is very admirable that you has formed a 7month relationship with this guy via computer and phone, I am concerned when you say you can't meet him yet. Why is that? Is it a distance issue or something else? Also Jealousy is not a sign of love but a sign of insecurity? There may be things about him you don't know the truth about. You profess your love for him and it may be real, but anyone can say anything by phone or email and IM. There are no facial expressions to give them away if they are full of crap. I say reign in your love talk until you to can meet in person and "really"get to know each other, through conversation that can't be hidden by anonymity.
2007-03-18 08:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by MZOrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just show your love by being yourself.Guys love know the real you makes them love you more because they gotten to know the real you.Try taking things slow because in person so that he can sense that the person he has been texting and emailing is real.Please meet him somewhere in public like the movies or restaurant.Date in the daytime for the first 10 times.Dating people who you never meet can be dangerous.Take a friend with a boyfriend on a double date with your guy on the first two or three dates.That way your friends can give you an insight on the guy and you won't put yourself in any position you can't get yourself out of.Take my advice.It is best to be safe than sorry.There is too much happening out their to go out there blind.
2007-03-18 15:12:18 · answer #2 · answered by jany50002002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,
If he is like that, take that as a sign that he will be watching your every move, taping and eaves dropping on your phone conversations, going through your e-mails, checking your gas mileage, alienating you from your friends, keeping you on the offense where you will always have to prove your love.
His insecurity is not your issue of proving you love him. That is his insecurity and take it as a sign to why he wants to talk to you every two to three hours.
Seems so cute now, but you are headed for the realms of "control freak heaven".
Your women intuition is working for you and if you do not be wise and listen-a few years form now when the fantasy has worn off you will look back and say "The "D" word, those were clues to his controlling nature". You will/may either be recovering from some traumatic hurt or psychological trauma.
So you need to move on and get some girlfriends and hang out withthem if you are that lonely to the point where you are so vunerable to this control freak.
I want you to be warned because I allowed myself to be taken in by a sociopath who was so charming until I married him and then all of his problems were mine and everything wrong in his life was my fault and I could do nothing right-even my being a woman was wrong.
I cut the string, unplugged him, closed the door, let him go, said goodbye-which ever way to make you understand "I no longer accepted him in my life trying to mess my world"
So you do nt even get started. Sorry this is so long,but you need to get this!
Love yourself girl!
Read my poem:
Now That’s Love
I know what love is like:
Truly loving someone is giving them the freedom to love you or not
Truly loving yourself is choosing to be someone who uses that freedom to love you
Yea, now that’s love
June 19, 2006 by Arene
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2007-03-18 15:16:35 · answer #3 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can you build a rock solid relationship with some one you've only talked to on the phone,text or computer?
How you gonna cheat on him......e-mail someother stud?
You will know if it's real love when you meet in person....until then it's two people preparing for love
2007-03-18 15:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
establishing a relationship over the internet is doubly hard as having a bf minus technology. So you must explain to him that the only way for the relationship to survive is for him to trust you the way you trust him. He should believe what you tell him if he loves you. And just spend more time with him in any means to take away his insecurities....
2007-03-18 15:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by marguerite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just continue to go through life as thought he's right beside you. If he needs reassurance, give it. He prob knows what a catch you are and is feeling a lil unsure about that. I also know, words are sometimes not enough. If he's going to stick it out with you, he is gonna have to push his feeling aside and be a big boy.
2007-03-18 15:11:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
flirt. #1 pay attention to him #2 complment him # 3 hold his hand#4 make time for him #5 tell him you love him.#6 kiss him,
2007-03-18 15:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send him a picture of yourself or better yet make a video of yourself talking to him and send it to him. Don't tell him your going to do it. Surprise him.
2007-03-18 15:01:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you trust him and he should trust you. It's a two way street. If he insists you are cheating, he is probably cheating on you.
2007-03-18 15:06:25 · answer #9 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋