i met this guy over myspace- we really hit it off- 1st msn, then i gave him my number. im 18 and he is 19.. we decided to meet up before he left to go to england. he flew up from durban and we got on so well- we so relaxed with eachother. i showed him around town and everything. he was her efor 4days and he had to go. at the airport i was crying cos he is such and nice guy and has so much respect for woman. i trust him with all my heart. it may seem weird but i think i may just have feelings for him. he tells me he does too. and we chat and were keeping in touch quite a bit. he also wants a relationship now but we know long distance doesnt work- im in south africa. so we have decided to only get together when he comes back and ill go to england on a gap yr- do u think we could work something out?
2007-03-18 07:52:45 · 6 answers · asked by jc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you found a really nice guy. Congrats! (Sidenote: there's nothing wrong with an online realtionship.)
The thing is, long distance relationships are strenuous. I was in one for a while with a guy that I met online. I completely fell in love with him. Things were great for about a year and a half, but then it just sort of fell apart. It was the hardest thing I've ever had to deal with. There was a lot of crying, depression, etc. The good news is that I've moved on and we are still close friends and we talk often.
Moral of the story: Long distance relationships--especially online--hardly ever work. I don't want to give you false hope by saying that it's going to be great and everything will be wonderful and happy. That's not true. There's a very real chance that it will fall through. Trust me.. if it does, it will be hard. It hurts just as bad as it does in a regular close-distance relationship. He just won't be there to see you cry. However, there's always the possibility that if it doesn't work, you've just found yourself a lifelong friend, and that's the best thing to find.
I hope all goes well for you. :)
2007-03-18 08:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by Dee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
information superhighway courting is okay even if it really is what you want to do. in case you intend on assembly the man you're courting verify it really is in a public position and performance a buddy with you. under no circumstances provide out any personal assistance about your self!
2016-11-26 20:49:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really like this guy and he likes you then anything can work. Just be careful when meeting people online it can be dangerous. Good Luck
2007-03-18 07:57:55 · answer #3 · answered by B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm still trying to get over the shock that you actually met up with someone from over the Internet.
2007-03-18 07:59:37 · answer #4 · answered by weddrev 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you both have true feelings for each other, of course it will work out.
2007-03-18 07:59:31 · answer #5 · answered by Vicz101 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys really want you to work then anything is possible.
2007-03-18 07:58:05 · answer #6 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋