would you pick a guy that is a macho and having muscular body or a guy that is nice and didnt have a muscular body
2007-03-18 07:52:19 · 34 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
id rather have a guy thats nice. muscles dont make the man.
2007-03-18 07:55:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the guys looks are that important that ask yourself this, if the guy is more worried about he looks than about how you look, why would you want him?! I dated a power-lifting body builder who was somewhat macho and he ended up being conceted and selfish. Then I dated several who were lean but with great muscular bodies and both looked in the mirror too much for me and they were too serious and consumed with weightlifting, or yoga (the lean one). I wan to be healthy but I don't want looked down upon everytime I eat a candy bar, nor do I want to be pushed into some exercise routine myself!
Wouldn't it be better so really pay attention to how you are treated? Are you being treated with respect by both? Some muscular guys put their women on pedestals and some "nice guys" end up showing that they are not so nice after the romancing phase of a relationship has been completed in his eyes. I have dated a lot of "nice guys" that ended up showing their true side, that they were as selfish as the muscluar ones mentioned above.
Make a list of qualities that you would like in a guy. Then break it into to categories, MUSTS, and WOULD BE NICE, then separate those quailities. Every guy you think about dating should have a lot going for him in the MUST category. Be true to yourself. Basically, really get to know the guy as much as you can before getting too involved. Watch for little signs that send up a red flag and listen to your instincts not your loins... I mean just because a seemingly "nice guy" always opens the door and get's the check doesn't mean he's going to be nice all the time.
2007-03-18 08:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Susan M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy that is nice a dosn't have a macho body . The reason for this is i dated guys who were my fantasy men and they turned out to be butts and they only loved me so they could show me off .So it all adds up to macho men are good looking but thier insides arn't
2007-03-18 07:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Elena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a nice guy who's muscular
2007-03-18 08:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by Kathy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Brains over brawn anyday. Macho muscular guys tend to be into self worship.
2007-03-18 08:02:20 · answer #5 · answered by CROSS-EYED PENGUIN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a guy that is nice and didnt have a muscular body
2007-03-18 07:55:00 · answer #6 · answered by [kiki]licious 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Guy that is nice and didnt have a muscualr body because overall it IS personality , i cant be with a guy who is constantly looking ad his body in the mirror or acting out to show off.
Besides the nice guy might decide to bulk up :P
2007-03-18 07:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by The Beautiful Ordinary 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice guy, and no muscular body.... i don't want a mean macho that can kick my a*s...not a good idea
2007-03-18 07:55:58 · answer #8 · answered by n1cyndy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NICE!!!! No doubt about it. Muscles are fun to look at, but most "macho" guys are completely in love with themselves. Anmd the few who aren't are usually gay...there's nothing wrong with that, either!!! The gay guys make the best friends!!
2007-03-18 07:56:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
nice guy with less of a body over a macho body builder anyday!
2007-03-18 07:55:47 · answer #10 · answered by Mynde 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A little bit of both. I would rather be with a guy who is nice but if he was muscular too, wow what a perfect guy!
2007-03-18 07:55:51 · answer #11 · answered by puppypawzz11 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋