At what age should guys get married? How about girls?
2007-03-18 07:40:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
AGE IS LESS IMPORTANT THAN MATURITY LEVEL ------- I've met mature 25 year olds------- and immature, insensitive, self centered 65 year olds.
My experience as a psychologist who also does marriage and family therapy is that the younger you get married (<25), the greater the risks of problems since both partners have yet to truly understand who and what they are and what really is best for them. <25 is a time of self discovery and knowing what one can truly contribute to another human being and society as a whole. Also, problem solving, conflict resolution and communication skills are typically not well developed in younger couples.
Finally, one important factor... the 1st year is most important... how you manage the relationship then will set the tone for the remainder of your marriage. If you fight poorly, love poorly, are not forgiving and sensitive, etc., etc., you will have created a hell for yourself on Earth!
2007-03-18 07:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Wisdom??? 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on where you are in life.For me as a girl 25-30 is best that way when I decide to have kids I won't be too old when the kids are 18.I will be through with college or close to finishing my degrees.Have a good career to provide a home for our family.Being financially stable helps some in the relationship when it comes to being married.You can be poor and happy but there is nothing wrong to me to me to be well off and happy.
2007-03-18 07:47:47 · answer #2 · answered by jany50002002 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think 28-30 is a great age for both sexes to marry.
That gives you enough time to have grown up some...to have lived on your own perhaps and learn to be responsible for yourself. You come into your own near 30...learn who you are and what you want to become.
It's the perfect age, I think to also allow someone into your life to help you sort these things out.
2007-03-18 07:45:22 · answer #3 · answered by I am Laurie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that there's any specific age where you should get married. I think when you both are ready, and when i say ready, i mean emotionally, and financially. Be sure that you know that your not only marrying that person but that's person's ways of life, their debt, their family, their lifestyle, their friends. It's not always as easy as you think.
2007-03-18 08:09:20 · answer #4 · answered by dfs_berthies 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Guys and girls should get married whenever they know they have chosen the right person. Right now they are right about 50% of the time.
2007-03-18 07:47:55 · answer #5 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
25-30 would be best age for marriage for both women, and men.....but thats just my opinion. There isnt really an age limit when it comes to marriage.
2007-03-18 07:42:25 · answer #6 · answered by Rocker Chick 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you dont get married at an age. you get married when you fall in love with a special someone that you dont want to be without, i dont think your too young or too old for marriage, its are you ready to love forever?
2007-03-18 07:46:51 · answer #7 · answered by Youll See 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think maybe 26- 30 because your parting stage is over and you are mentally ready for a relationship that can last a lifetime :)
2007-03-18 07:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by Elena 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No age really whenever you want too. When ever you find the special person you know you will be with for the rest of your life.
2007-03-18 07:43:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your age should probally be at least 21 yrs. old because you already would be past college, and the girl should be at least 20 to be married, I don't know but i know is, YOU HAVE to past college
2007-03-18 08:38:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋