why do men like big boobs sooo much??

Question

See my boyfriend, thats all he ever wants to to is to spend time with my boobs (if you know what i mean)lol sometimes i think he like my boobs more he like me, lol I have a little pudge to my stomach but it doesn't hang over or pop out like that,it's just not a bikini belly!! soo he always wants to just lift my shirt up,and spend time with my boobs lol ,except for I don't like it cuz im inbarrassed about my stomach,and i don't know how to tell him,im not fat, im (187lbs) im 5"7, ineed no smart answrs only the serious!! please help me!!!

Answer 1

All men have different tastes. Some like strawberry blondes, some like platinum blondes, some like brunettes, some like brunettes with red highlights, some like black hair, some like colored or permed hair, some prefer natural, some like fat women, some like them skinny, some like freckles, some don't.....

Lots of guys like boobs. There's others that are obsessed with butts.... or legs..... or her mouth! (Angelina Jolie's lips get her almost as many fans as her t*ts.)

But you already knew that, didn't you? So just go ahead and enjoy yourself and don't worry, he doesn't even notice your tummy.

Answer 2

Some guys just like breasts. I'm sure you have a favorite part of the male anatomy. It's just a personal preference. Now as far as you not liking your stomach... don't worry so much. Guys care far less about a little pouch than you think. I'm sure he loves your body just the way it is. He obviously loves how well endowed you are. But if you want him to spend less time with your chest and more time just focusing on you then just say so. Relationships work better when you're upfront about what you want, otherwise you're just hoping he can read between the lines and most of the time he can't.

Answer 3

Just tell him that you hate your gut! Just don't get when he starts looking for girls with big boobs and smaller guts! Or you could find a person who love your mind not into your body at all.

Bottom line yo need to work on what make you happy, if 187lbs is fine with you why not show it to him(if not the world)? If 187lbs is not working for you, that's not his fault(choose you at that size) only you can change that not him and embarrassed wont change a thing.

Answer 4

First off, you need to learn to be comfy with who you are... pudge and all. Trust me... been there and done that. Also, work out. Do situps, pushups, and the such. That will help to tone your belly and even it out and all that good stuff. In bra size I am a double D and I've already had a breast reduction so I have big boobs and they are annoying in a way but yes, my boyfriend likes them a lot. But he loves me for who I am and I love me for who I am. I am about 5'1'' and I weigh 167 pounds so I ain't no little, thin gal. But this is who I am and because I want to be thinner I work out. And sometimes I ask my bf to work out with me. Let him know how you feel seeing as it will build up the realationship and your confidence. And don't be ashamed of who you are. Something I told myself for a long time was that there was more of me to love on. If you can't accept yourself how do you expect others to accept you?

Answer 5

I can totally relate most, well probably all guys i've been with have had that obsession, have you ever actually asked him? I asked my boy that and he said he just loved that he could play amoungst them as crazy as that sounds, where as the rest of my bod was pretty toned and moved a lot less. He always had something he liked much more so if i really didn't feel like him mucking about with my boobs i went for what he liked better. Perhaps if you really don't like it, or get to him first!

Answer 6

You're always going to be able to find something about yourself that you don't like. Other people rarely see things the same way we see them. But if you keep telling your man that you don't want him touching you for whatever reason, eventually, he'll take you at your word and start seeing all of your flaws, just the way you do. Is that really what you want? If you need to ***** about yourself, tell a girlfriend, not your boyfriend.

Try and get over your self loathing about not being perfect and accept that your boyfriend finds you sexy and attractive. Stop trying to talk him out of that or you may just succeed.

Answer 7

just tell him you are slightly selfconscious about your stomach and that youd appriciate if he would not focus on your boobs so much. but then again he dosent care about your stomach if it was that big of a deal to him you would know it, seems to me that he loves you for who you are and some aspects just make him really happy, if you know what i mean. and i mean if the whole stomach thing is such a problem then why not got to they gym or something, not for him or anyone else but for yourself. so yea hope that helps a bit.

Answer 8

guys like different things who knows whats going thru his head u sound like a terrific girl and if he doesn't seem to get that then dump him before any thing gets serious. I should kno because i had asked a lot of my friends that same question and they all gave me wacked up answers so i just went for what i wanted and now we're not together!

Answer 9

The first thing that will attract men aside from the looks is their boobs.

Everything equal the boobs will get them to you because of feeling sexy.

Answer 10

i guess no one will EVER understand the male mind. theyr crazy and obviosly i dont really knoe the answer but my guess is that he just well thinks your boobs r sexi. and u said its embarressing because ur a teeny itty bitty small bitt chubby, well obviosly ur bf doesnt mind, i wish i could give u more info but im just a girl wondering the same thing. ♥