either decide to deal with it and get over it or decide and it's a deal breaker and move on - for your sake and hers.
it's not fair to string her along if you have hangups about her past
2007-03-18 07:34:09
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answered by island3girl 6
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Unless your past is "perfect", give her a chance. You don't say what the problem is exactly, but if people truly want to, they can make effective changes in their behavior. If it is something to which you are deeply, morally opposed, then perhaps you can't get around it. If so, the kindest thing would be to let her go, as it would always be an obstacle between you. It would also probable be best for all involved if you were completely honest about why you are breaking up with her--she has a right to know. Good luck.
2007-03-18 07:38:26
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answered by RetroGirl 6
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Decide if these things you can get past. If you think they are going to constantly put a shadow on your relationship I would say you cant handle this. Try to talk about how it makes you fell with her. If she understands it should make you fell better if she dosnt ..this isnt the relationship for you. Even if you love her you dont want her past ruining your future.
2007-03-18 07:37:33
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answered by Micro spice 3
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you at the instantaneous are not getting it! She's texting you because she should be particular that it really is fairly, fairly throughout between you and he or she. Why! because females attempt this. We adult adult males in simple terms bounce into the subsequent prospect that comes alongside. no longer the girls. they could be honestly particular. Why? because they are fairly in contact with their emotions. We adult adult males, what the heck can we care, it truly is our attitude. pondering the length of your question and each of the records contained therein, i'd could anticipate that you, too, opt to re-research her and also you and what's fairly on your minds. strong success and performance a great 3 hundred and sixty 5 days.
2016-11-26 20:45:16
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answered by lirette 4
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Remember the past is the past. It's done and overwith. You are her future. Everyone has a past. We all do things we are not proud of. Also in her favor, she hasn't hidden her past from you either. Doesn't that make you feel good and calm knowing she is honest with you? No one is perfect. If you can't get over her past and concentrate on the future quit making her life miserable for it and move on.
2007-03-18 07:36:17
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answered by Stefbear 5
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Sometimes voices of experience are not heard. For many reasons I guess. I want you to know this because it is so true. THE PAST DOES NOT MATTER ONE BIT! If you both love one another as you say you love her, then it only takes some time. Time and Love will cure any issues such as you mention.
2007-03-18 07:43:06
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answered by Anonymous
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First of all, love her to life. Second, her past is exactly that, her past, Her present is you--she chose you which shows you that she has moved on and set the bar on guys pretty high. You are her ticket to put the past behind her and move on. I think she loves you a lot.
2007-03-18 07:41:16
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answered by Monsieur Rick 7
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Get over it or let her go and get counseling so you can realize that EVERYONE has a past. You are going to be one lonely man if you don't come to terms with your incapability to deal with the fact the women in your life had a life before you. You did didn't you?
2007-03-18 07:34:25
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answered by Jen 4
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There is a saying that goes something like this, 'Yesterday is past, tomorrow hasn't arrived, but today is a gift, that is why it is called the present.' We need to learn to live in the present.
Only you can determine what is best for your & her.
The best to you both, steadfast 1 <><
2007-03-18 07:53:10
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answered by Steadfast † One 6
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Her past? You don't have a past? Eveyone has a past! If you're looking for a virgin, then you need some serious help.
Trust her by her actions and words with you and judge her not by her choices in the past.
Translated, it means, get over yourself!
2007-03-18 07:36:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I couldn't get over my boyfriend's past and I broke up with him. I am much happier now. Ask yourself if she has "changed" just in order to be with you. Soon after we broke up he was back doing his old thing again...so he was a fake the whole time...that hurts even more than his past.
2007-03-18 07:35:13
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answered by Lal 4
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