Professor with deceased relative- how to respond?

Question

I just got an e-mail from a professor saying that one of his close relatives passed away and class is canceled. Should I respond to him saying I'm sorry or will it sound like a platitude to get on his good side? Because I'm not friendly with him and we've never e-mailed about anything or spoken outside of the classroom. On the other hand, I'd rather not look like a heartless cow. What to do?

Answer 1

You won't look heartless if you don't respond, especially if you don't usually converse outside class; however, there is absolutely nothing out of line about sending your condolences if they are genuine. If you don't really care, then don't.

Answer 2

There is absolutely nothing wrong with replying to his message stating you're so very sorry to hear of his relatives passing, and you'll keep him and his family in your thoughts.

As you don't have a friendly relationship with him, anything beyond that couldbe construed as "kissing up." But a simple message of sympathy is perfectly appropriate!!

Answer 3

As ingle class is cancelled or the whole class is cancelled? I think that if it is one class then simply sending thoughts of sympathy is fine, just use the time to catch up on homework. If the whole class is cancelled then you will have to adjust your schedule to make sure that your classes stay on track.

Answer 4

Short and to the point e-mail. Sorry for your loss. Seems reasonable to me

Answer 5

Let it be. It would seem weird if I were the professor

Answer 6

i think its fine to say sorry to hear that.

Answer 7

I think a short "sorry for your loss" note would be appropriate and appreciated.