There's this guy that I love. He's 22 and I'm 18. We've been friends since I was 12 and he was 15. Were sorta friends right now. Deep in my heart, I know he's the one. The problem is, he's dating this girl and still accepting my letters and checking up on me daily when he sees my grandmother and cousin around. They talk about a lot of stuff together about me. He never writes to me or calls me to let me know how he feels about me when I ask in the letters I write him. I don't know what he's doing and why he's doing to begin with. Is he in love with me or what? I spoke to his brother a while back and he has over 100 letters from me in his room that he's kept since our friendship. What's the deal? is what I'm asking. He's has a girlfriend and moved on with his life why he is trying to fit into mines?
2007-03-18 06:17:55 · 1 answers · asked by cloclo0688 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to get a grip. this guy is seeing someone else and is not with you. he may be keeping your letters because he cares for you as a person and for your history, not because he loves you - as you seem to think. He also may be keeping them in case you do something crazy - he will have proof that you are a bit obsessed with him.
He talks to your grandmother and cousin because he is a decent human being and no necessarily for any reason to do with you. If he asks how you are, it's just that asking - he's not seeking a relationship with you.
You seem to be obsessed with him and I suggest you seek some counseling so you can learn to deal with the fact that he is with someone else and you can move on with your life and find a love life of your own.
good luck to you
2007-03-18 06:26:33 · answer #1 · answered by island3girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋