Women and your subtle clues?

Question

How many women show interest in a guy and only give him subtle body clues to show your attraction towards him?

Do you always or at least expect him to come up to you?

If weeks pass by and still there is no sign of him coming up to you... do you give up your subtle body hints and move on?

Why or why not?

Answer 1

well, I met my boyfriend one night while i was working (at a restaurant). But several nights before that i was at a TGIFridays bar after work and saw him. I thought he was so hott...but i was at a bar, and not about to try to talk to him there. So i just kept glancing his way and as soon as we would make eye contact I would slowly look away. It turned out he was against meeting peopel in bars as well. So he came into my work with a friend of his. His friend actually was a bartender at Fridays and his friends girlfriend was new at my job and i had trained her so we talked alot. Well i saw him come in and he looked different so at first i didnt notice it was him (i was also sober this time as compared to when i was at the bar) and we couldnt stop looking at eachother. It was an instant attraction but neither of us spoke to each other.

I guess you could say we were both giving subtle clue towards each other. Of course I wanted him to come talk to me bc i dont like to make the first move...and I never have. I think its easier for both the male and female to act this way bc the girl can the clues when interested and the guy can pick up on the clues and then there isnt that fear of rejection from either person.

If him and i had done this for weeks i would have made the move and not given up!! I would have approached him...actually that is kinda what happened but in my own sissy way. I asked the girl at my work i was training who he was and that i thought he was a hottie and she said "REALLY HE THOUGHT THAT ABOUT YOU TOO!!" so that night we all hung out and i was still too chicken to talk to him so i talked to everyone but him then he took my seat when i went to the bathroom...forcing me to talk to him.

I think if its something you want bad enough then you should give up the clues and go for it!!!

Answer 2

Before I was married, I gave subtle clues because it seemed polite. I also watched for them in return. If I got some hint that the guy was attracted me as well, and still wasn't taking it no further than subtle clues, I would make the move if he didn't first.

Answer 3

I refuse to chase a man, but I realize sometimes they can't detect my interest. I've found out years later that so-and-so really -was- interested and such. I always want the man to initiate the first kiss or more-than-friends touch. When I'm interested, I get more playful, I may touch your arm or shoulder when I laugh, I look into your eyes longer than usual, I lean in when you talk, and if all else fails, I bust out my knee-high boots and booby shirts. If you don't get it by then, then you're doomed to be my guy friend forever. There's nothing more exciting for me than when a guy jumps out on that limb and takes me by surprise. I'd rather not hear something like, "Can I.. Is it okay if I... kiss you, maybe?" I love it when a guy grabs my hand or puts his hand behind my neck and just goes for that kiss. If you're unsure, how can I be sure? It could be more subtle too. My partner gave me little clues at first and the first time he kissed me, it was on top of my head. I thought it was so sweet. Now we've lived together for almost 3 years.

Answer 4

If I am slightly interested in someone then I do give the slight body clues, lean in while he's talking, relate to the stories he tells, look in his eyes while he's talking, smile at him, make innocent jokes, or brush against him . This is very common for women and very common for men to miss lol. I will keep doing this, unless the guy flat out tells me about someone else, or he says he has no interest in me (or hes gay)...and they almost always respond and come up to me. But like I said I keep doing it unless he makes it clear thats not what hes interested in... as for why? why not!

Hope I helped!!! =]

Answer 5

Why men think we are always playing a game is beyond me. Do you realize how difficult the dating world is today. It is not only women who don't know what they want.
Men can be just as confusing. I have met so many men who just don't know what they want.
Did you ever think maybe she doesn't know how to approach you. She doesn't know if she should be forward or be meek. You never know with guys these days. We just can't please you and it is just as undaunting for us.
Stop making women out to be something were not. We are human just like you...

Answer 6

girls want a guy who is in to them enough to pick up on little hints that we like you. if you can't do that after a couple of weeks chances are she'll think you are self-centered and arrogant and move on. wake up and get a clue. make a move!