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Why can’t the commitment be there without the red tape? Why does she think I don’t really love her just because I don’t want to get married? I’ve been divorced my ex was a cheater and this is what made me feel like the papers are useless. If I say I love her forever why does she not trust me? Why must there be more.

2007-03-18 05:56:52 · 3 answers · asked by tony cola 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If she really cares about you she will understand what you went through in your first marriage. Unless she wants children or has some kind of strict religious background marriage does not mean love.
As a woman I don't feel the need for marriage. Maybe you should talk to some of her girlfriends and find one that could relate to her that you can 'love' without marriage. It's the 21st century, there are more women now than ever that aren't choosing marriage. Let her know your relationship will be in the majority - most couples are not getting married. And those relationships sometimes are lasting longer than marriage. My non-marriage lasted 10 years.

2007-03-18 06:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by mariee64 3 · 0 0

I think it depends on the age of the woman. Is she young? If so, she may want the commitment of marriage to have children and a family. She wants you to make a honest woman of her.
If she is older, (like me..lol) I don't understand the drive to be married. I was married 20 years, divorced over 2 and marriage?? I don't even think about that!
I think that marriage and according to what she wants, all depends on where the woman is in her life.
I hoped I helped? :)

2007-03-18 13:11:05 · answer #2 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0 0

Well if you know, then why ask. Just because, your first one didn't work out. don't mean ,the next one won't.
You have to accept, what will happen will happen.
It may be worth your while, but then maybe not. It is a choice both of you would have to make.

2007-03-18 13:20:23 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0 0

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