Hello all,
Please give me some reasonable answer....and please be honest? Am I ugly? What girls want??? WHat is the problem...I am 21 and I try already 5 years to find a girlfriend but no result...I even consider to turn gay. I think I am interesting...I mean I am intelligent, I don't think am bad looking, I have free time...I have money...but I can't find even a fat, ugly, stupid girl...
Here are two pics to know better about me:
http://s174.photobucket.com/albums/w119/bacarddi/Ego/?action=view¤t=ru.jpg
http://img47.imageshack.us/my.php?image=picture145jb7.jpg
2007-03-18 05:35:19 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Same reason I can't. The girls don't know a good thing when they see it. My only fault is I like to take care of the girl I'm with, and that don't even work. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 05:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by D.C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Having similar problems to your's.
I'm 43 and I feel for you dude.
Adjust your attitude a little, get some good porn (nice friendly instructive kind ) to ground you a little.
Go where women are, wherever that is. If can deal with it, take ballet or something where its 90% women.
If you think you would like a fat , ugly , stupid girl. At least be nice to her and make sure you like her mostly. And be sort of honest. Tell her she is beautiful though. Or you don't atand a chance with her. Maybe that lie would be ok, I'm not sure. Anyway, women are not meat. They are people who have feelings, more than us even so be nice and be gentle. If you just want to get laid, maybe admit that, maybe some girls want that too. ANyway , relax, you are only 21, a baby. Pleanty of time. Again get porn, get where women are, be nice.
2007-03-18 05:44:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you start to see your self with a girlfriend, seriously(as corny as this sounds) everyday or night before you sleep - imagine as many details about her... her personality, her looks how she is in general. Say a little prayer, be postive and then let it go. It will happen. But first accept and love yourself as you are with all your good and bad points, be the best you you can be - she will show up as you live your life and are happy.
Most importantly - Quit saying and thinking that you "can't" - say "I'm looking for her" and I'm ready for her.
btw- you are cute, and if I wasn't married I'd take a second look at you in the "looks" department.
Attitude is everything thought - so stay positive
Peace:)
2007-03-18 05:43:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fishing? Sure, you're cute, but maybe you're looking too hard. Desperation attracts two things:
1.) Other desperate people. They'll smother you and try to take away your life out of insecurity. You'll end up hating them.
2.) Opportunists. They'll use you, abuse you, and generally make you feel low, but the kicker is- all of this might just make you like them MORE.
Get confident. Then, you'll be so desirable that you won't even need to have a peepee to get a girlfriend.
2007-03-18 05:46:07 · answer #4 · answered by Tink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're definitely attractive, but you have a bad attitude. "But I can't find even a fat, ugly, stupid girl"???? Not even the stupid will seek someone who thinks that she's at the bottom of the totem pole.
I recommend talking to your friends and having them give you an honest answer of what's turning girls off. And when you're looking for girls, don't start thinking of them as potential girlfriends. Keep things casual at first and grow to love them. :)
2007-03-18 05:41:01 · answer #5 · answered by Ask Aunt Amy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you search desperately for something, whatever was it, it never comes. Just chill out, and be the best person you can, and believe me you'l find them coming. I'm also sure you're loking in the wrong places, but you'll find someone when you look in the right place, and approach her properly.
2007-03-18 05:40:02 · answer #6 · answered by RareBird 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Alright Baby, you are not that bad looking. The only thing wrong--where u live.
Some girls are just not liking certain kinda guys in certain places, if u were where i am, i know at least 3 girls (inlcuding me) who would seduce u right now. :)
email me.
2007-03-18 05:43:07 · answer #7 · answered by Kaliana A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the fact that u can consider turning gay gives me a hint why girls don't find you attractive.
i mean if you know u r straight, then why think of?!!
take my advice...
think not what's wrong with you ,
think what's wrong with all of the girls around you.
2007-03-18 05:54:14 · answer #8 · answered by as_a_youngthief_in_da_night 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not ugly, but you need to get a personality.
you are probably too reserved or awkward, which turns girls off.
you need to have HUUUGE confidence and basically act like a real jerk and jackazz and girls will love you then.
you're too modest
2007-03-18 05:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by The Don 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more confidence!that is a must! girls can tell when you dont have it. when you feel good about yoursel,f it will reflect on the outside and some special girl will see that and notice all the other good things about you.
2007-03-18 05:40:54 · answer #10 · answered by USCfan77 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋