im getting married tommorow... i dont know if this is good or bad... should i marry her???
2007-03-18 05:22:53 · 12 answers · asked by zhieth 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Since you're even asking the question, I think you know the answer is no. How long have you known her? How long have you known yourself? Life is long, we change and grow, particularly in the early stages of life. You need to find out if you will grow together and not apart. Tough to do at an early age. Do what's right and don't continue down a road that is almost certain disaster. If it's right, in two years it will still be right. If not, and you get married, what then? Kids with a split home? Dividing up everything? Hating each other? paying alimony and/or child support? The only thing you both really have to lose is a very small amount of time, and it's not like you wouldn't be together. Love her, keep loving her, and see how you both feel in a couple years. If it's still good, you really lost nothing. If you, she, or both of you feel differently, you lost less than nothing and gained everything.
Good Luck!
2007-03-18 05:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by Partisanshipsux 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're getting married tomorrow and you think now is the time to decide if you should do it or not?
Well this is something a 17 year old would do.....don't get married if you have any doubts.
By the way...where are you parents?
2007-03-18 12:43:46 · answer #2 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like you're NOT ready at all to get married. Getting married is very serious... and if you are having doubts don't go through with it! This could be the BIGGEST mistake of your life. Follow your heart!
Good Luck
2007-03-18 13:29:34 · answer #3 · answered by CUTIE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little late to be asking that question if the wedding is in one day. I think it's a bit young to be getting married, personally, but it's worked for other people.
2007-03-18 12:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by lyllyan 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask the answer is going to be no.you are too young.you have your whole life to get married but college is more important than marriage.you can always use knowlege from college but you can have a wife one minute and not have one the next.what will happen if your fionce gets pregnant???you cant go to school and work at the same time.
2007-03-18 13:05:37 · answer #5 · answered by chelsrenee13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kid, you are WAY to young. you are still a kid, if you get married this young, you lose a big part of your life. Wait 5 or 6 more years at least before you go & get married.
2007-03-18 12:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask, then no. Although to get married at 17 you need parental approval so you must have convinced a lot of people to get this far.
2007-03-18 22:33:51 · answer #7 · answered by K S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally up to you but let me give you my personal advice. You have a lot of life ahead of you and making that choice at 17 is way too early!
ESPECIALLY if you are planning on going to College! You are going to meet TONS of people in college and having a serious committment like that will only hinder you in social activities.
In the end though, it is your choice.
2007-03-18 12:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am really huny but this is too late unless u go tell her now..... and oh yeah u should totally be on that show engaged and underage on mtv...... but i think its too early cuz i would really wanna go to college before i get arried and my friend got married when she was 19 and she got divorced like 4 months ago and she's 22 now
2007-03-18 18:11:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you sitll have a chance get out now, you shouldn't be getting married, just by asking the question it means no.
2007-03-18 12:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jeff G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋