Every time I get a b/f, I always seem to have feeling for someone else. This is my thrid b/f this year, and once againI like someone else. And I try to make thing work with who ever I'm going out with, but they just seem to be buds with me in my head. And the guys that I like never like me back, they like my blond friends.
So do I try to make this one work, or give up & pine over someone who doesn't want me?
2007-03-18 05:20:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you like the chase not the guy themselves, try and find a worthwhile guy u actully like not the chase for the guy
2007-03-18 05:24:06 · answer #1 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have a case of "the grass is always greener..." I'm not sure how old you are, but if you are an adolescent, or in your early 20's, you are just figuring out who you are yourself. Many things are interesting to you - when you have something, you may get comfortable and yearn for something else - thus, the wandering eyes. My suggestion would be not to commit yourself and keep your options open - go out on dates and hold off on the relationships. When "the one" comes along, you will know and he'll have so much you won't look anywhere else.
2007-03-18 12:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by TMP SWKER 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may be to dependent on others to be happy. "I like this guy now but later I am not as happy as I was in the beginning". People need to be totally happy with themselves, first. You meet other people who feel the same. Your long term friends are the ones you have things in common with, BUT are not dependent upon to be happy. You are just sharing and trying to enjoy each day, keep it simple. Sometimes this will last for months or even a lifetime. Good luck
2007-03-18 12:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by Frank M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sound like you just are intrigued until you know you can have them and when you cant have a guy then it makes you wonder why and you want to go after them. you may secretly have a self esteem problem but you need to wise up before you run out of good guys and youll be the one getting your heart broke when someone you actually care about and want to be with breaks up with you because "they have feelings for someone else".
2007-03-18 12:35:08 · answer #4 · answered by USCfan77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your orientation (sexually) is for girls. It is normal for lesbians/bi to be attracted to guys as friends and to try to conjure up an intimate relationship... only to find they are not truly attracted to them physically once the opportunity is there.
You may be opposed (or even repulsed) by this idea initially, but try to be open-minded. Take a good look at an attractive female (not necessarily a friend) and consider the possibility of her body next to yours, and/or look at some tasteful lesbian pornography in private. You have nothing to lose! Your body will tell you the truth.
Good luck!
2007-03-18 12:34:05 · answer #5 · answered by Kia A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want what you can't have (if you liked them in the beginning). Or you shouldnt be going out with people dont you have feelings for in the first place. (if you just never liked them). I think you'll grow out of it.
2007-03-18 12:24:48 · answer #6 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you like the chase....nothing wrong with this it just means you like to win.
2007-03-18 12:24:47 · answer #7 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋