I've gotten to hang out with this girl for sometime now and we've become pretty good friends. She's never dated anyone, she is of legal age, and she's not shy at all. I can't tell if she's just be friendly or if it's her lack of relationship xp. She has a lot of admirers but blows them off.
She cancels plans and asks me to hang out with her. When i visit her workplace and am about to leave, she makes a sad face. She asked for a piggy back ride the other day and i carried her to the otherside of the street. When she came over, i gave her a shoulder massage while she was checking her email.
She said that the reason she likes me is because she can talk and bother me i will probably never fall for her. Then she said she was unsure about that and that her charm might rub off on me.
Everyone thinks we're a couple because we hang out a lot and when asked if we are, she always says i'm too good for her.
2007-03-18 05:06:49 · 13 answers · asked by HopelessOne 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She has on the other hand invited me to dinner and a movie. She has also rated me a 9 from a scale of 1-10 in hotness. In addition when i jokingly mentioned i would stretch my arms in theatres to make a move, she insisted she wanted to see it. When we went with a group of people on a seperate occasion, she insisted i sit next to her and that if i continued sitting in front of her i would block her view. We walk close together a lot and play weird games. She even took my phone, decorated, and put pix of herself making weird faces and kissing the screen. She played the piano while i was napping and then jumped on me after.
Her statement about never falling for her has thrown me off... what do you think? Could this all just be a friendship?
2007-03-18 05:07:10 · update #1
I think she's just flirting and doesn't seem too serious-actuallly a bit childish(well everyone's a bit of kid). Ask her to make sure if she's serious or just playing!
2007-03-18 05:10:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound like a friendship to me. I would say something like, my friends really think we are a couple, and I am just going to say we are, are you okay with that? Than go to the movies and put your arm around her. When your own our way home together, tell her how you really feel but make sure she still knows if she isn't interested in you that way you still want to be friends. She really seems like she likes you. She might not know how to start the actual relationship because lack of experience, but it seems it has already started.
2007-03-18 12:13:12 · answer #2 · answered by Lauren C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It'll never get past just friendship unless you take action to find out if she is pressing for more. Sounds like she's the "Miss Personality" type, one who flirts and plays but don't want to admit she's ready for a relationship. You may have to take a step to find out more.
2007-03-18 12:20:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she tryed hard to make things work.
but then she realized that it was for the best that things stayed friendley around you guys.
and now she just wants to be youre friend and flirt around and stuff with you.
some people arent looking for relationships. theyre just looking for someone to hangout with and occassionally make out with. this doesnt mean she is a bad person, she just wants to have fun without hurting anyones feelings.
but dont fall for her beause she could hurt you bad.
keep things fun and neutral. these kind of friendships are always fun-- except until one of you gets married that is...
2007-03-18 12:13:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awww!!! That is so cute! I think she likes you. She is flirting with you ALOT, especially if she is "just a friend". You should totally go for it! Ask her if she likes you in that way.You two sound so adorable. I hope you can work it out!!!
2007-03-18 12:48:46 · answer #5 · answered by beachbum0694 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She deffo likes you, i think she's just scared incase you threw your relationship away.And she might of expected less seeing as it's her first date,she might not of expected someone to be so caring.
But mate, she deffo likes
but just ask her out!
2007-03-18 12:11:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she really likes you!! you should ask her out...and the reason why she probably keeps saying that you'll never fall for her...is because she thinks you will...so if you have fallen in love with her...ask her out!!
2007-03-18 12:17:09 · answer #7 · answered by rat_leg danny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her, go for it, i think theres more there than just friendship, but if u really want to know, try ignoring her and staying away for a few days and see what she does. i bet if u try something, she'll go with it, but thats just me
2007-03-18 12:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by thesunman 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah, tell her how you feel and don't let that comment get in the way because she probably just wanted to make you aware ands admit how you feel.
2007-03-18 12:11:30 · answer #9 · answered by croutonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i am a girl and i would say that she does like you and that she just doesnt want to tell you so do you like her if you do you should tell her and she might wich i think she would like you to and tell you that she does to well good luck
2007-03-18 12:17:45 · answer #10 · answered by casey s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋