Hes been disillusioned all the while getting his life messed up and disorientated for the past 9 years. He juz hiding in his own room playing games ignored everyone else. He juz dont want to be questioned and distured. He really believed in True Love and he really loved her. He has lost contact with her and has been waiting waiting ... for her so long. Now the problem is he even dont know whether that girl loved him too, he juz assumed she loved him and assumed it as a true love.
2007-03-18 05:04:46 · 6 answers · asked by Mental Head 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has to make the first step and talk to her
or someone has to get intouch with her and rekindle the friendship/romance that was there before
he can't wait around forever - he'll never get her!
good luck!
2007-03-18 05:11:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might just have to get over it.....sounds harsh but you've wasted quite a lot of time so far moping around - about something that was probably never meant to have happened. Start by assuming she didn't love you - suck it up have a big cry and MOVE ON. For your own good, get out there and get involved with other things, projects, places. Take control of your situation, decide that you're not going to be a victim and do some positive things for yourself. It might be hard to start but it will definitely help in the long run.
2007-03-26 09:49:24 · answer #2 · answered by Liz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get into an action and try to contact her.It is not too hard to find her in the Internet and call her for a good old day. Take your time with her and then you can find out if you see her. Do not tell anyone and you do not have to answer anyone about your love life. Move quick and take action fast. Good luck my friend.
2007-03-26 00:05:25 · answer #3 · answered by ryladie99 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he can wallow in self pity, and let life pass him by,,or he can pick himself off, dust himself off, and start again. Mopping around, and becoming a hermit is insane. Time to get this dude out of the house. He has to know that there is another woman who is waiting for him to present himself. He must get back in the dating world again. He will end up more depressed, and possibly suicidal. You must make him see that
2007-03-26 11:51:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..i've been in this kind of setup too...and it really hurts to know that youre in the loosing end with this situation because the girl doesnt know what youre really going thru. What hurts most - if one day, out of the blue you found out she's already married and doesnt even know you still exist.
Go on with your life, do something progressive so that if you meet her someday, she'll be proud of you and who knows love rekindles...
or socialize with others...there is a lot of women outhere who are much worthy of your love.
2007-03-18 12:54:10 · answer #5 · answered by ladypiolo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life's to short to wait around to see if some one loves you.you got to get out in the real world, and make it happen baby.
2007-03-26 11:11:26 · answer #6 · answered by Tammie Tempesta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋