We broke up 2 months ago. She's so important to me that I can't tolerate to lose contact with her. So I would like to be her friend. But I'm afraid I'll fall in love again and suffer the same way I suffered when we broke up.
2007-03-18 04:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can only be friends if you are completely over her. If not then you will only end up getting hurt. You have to way the pros and cons. Is it worth having her in your life if it causes you pain and sadness? Can you deal with her finding a new man? If you think you can handle it then you should still be friends.
2007-03-18 05:05:23 · answer #1 · answered by navy wife 1996 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that much of an urge to at least be friends...then you are going to fall back in love...or continue to stay in love and never move on. PLUS when she is with other guys new b/f's it is going to be very hard for you to deal. I would say be her "hi friend" which means when you see each other say HI, how are you maybe talk for a few and then go on your way. Don't try and be friends that hang out, and see each other and talk on a regular basis. That will only lead to trouble. I say your still in love!
2007-03-18 04:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After two months, you probably haven't fell out of love to fall back in. I'd wait about two years of no contact to be friends with an ex. It will be excruciating but its the only way. In my opinion, you're truly over an ex when you can see them with someone else and it not bother you.
2007-03-18 04:59:03 · answer #3 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be very difficult to be friends with an ex, i have tryed trust me. the love you once shared for one another never really fades away, so when you are in connection with one another there are going to be very weird situations you find yourself in.. like for instance, if another guy approaches her.. will you become protected of her, or maybe even jealous? i dont think its a great idea to be friends with her.. maybe if you keep it on the internet.. where your not actually seeing her. and years down the road when you both find that someone special you probably wont even desire to be in connect with one another anyway.. and if you do.. maybe you should be together as partners ?
2007-03-18 04:59:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn from my mistake stay away from the ex. I broke up with her the first time and then got back together with her several years later and it was not a good idea
2007-03-18 04:58:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust ur gut instinct key here is 2 months give ur self 6 months then 12 months sounds like she broke up with u so u could b clinging to something that never was
2007-03-18 04:59:34 · answer #6 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think men can be "just friends" with women if they are attracted to them. Subconsciously or consciously, there is always an intent.... love or sex.
If you don't want to fall in love, then stay away. You will save yourself some heartache.
2007-03-18 05:04:15 · answer #7 · answered by lissome 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes just being a friend who was in love can be touchy but if you can handle it ,that's the best friends to have because your a little in love with them and they with you and you'll each watch ech others backs .
2007-03-18 04:59:09 · answer #8 · answered by jr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best to stay away from her..
2007-03-18 04:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try telling her how you feel about her.
2007-03-18 04:57:53 · answer #10 · answered by chelsrenee13 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋