how can i trust her? how can i stop feeling like she's "damaged" in a way? she has kids and they have all gone through hell because of her..but she wont realize it.
do i stay with her? or do i move on. help!
2007-03-18 04:50:58 · 15 answers · asked by SickToHisStomach 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Stuff happens. Have you always been perfect and never strayed? If so, you're the exception and/or very inexperienced. She's telling you, which means she trusts you with this information and trusts you to do the right thing. You have to know yourself, but I'd give her the benefit of the doubt and explore those past infidelities to ensure that you don't back her into whatever corners led her astray in her past relationships.
2007-03-18 04:57:37 · answer #1 · answered by Scott 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!! Do you want her to put you through Hell too!!! NO you cant trust her, its nice that she confessed but really. You probably feel like you dont even know her anymore. YOU need to move on yes she is DAMAGED goods. Move on and find a woman who is trustful, faithful, and has no baggage or kids. You deserve much better!
2007-03-18 11:57:00 · answer #2 · answered by i♥Y!answers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would go talk to one of her X boyfriends and see if she said the same thing to him. not the affairs but the guys she was going with when she had the affairs. If she never opened up with them she may realize she was wrong. slow down and think Good luck I would rather date and X whore then a virgin.
2007-03-18 11:59:18 · answer #3 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has cheated on you leave her. But if she has just make some mistakes in her life don't. We all make mistakes and do things we are not proud of. The only thing that is important is do you love her and does she love you. It does not matter what she has done in her past. If you two are in love then stay with it.
2007-03-18 11:58:35 · answer #4 · answered by burn409 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you sould have found out more about who she was before you went out with her because after all your putting her kids through alot too by walking out, but never the less cut your ties and leave now before you hurt the kids even more.
2007-03-18 11:56:56 · answer #5 · answered by loving U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are always going to worry about her cheating on you the best thing to do is move on. It won't be healthy for the either of you if you are always going to be paranoid about her maybe or maybe not cheating on you.
2007-03-19 07:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by Mari76 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said she is damaged. So my best advice is to move on. You dont need this emotional roller coaster in your life.
2007-03-18 11:54:19 · answer #7 · answered by bhiggy0417 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
move on u see the damage she caused her kids in her selfishness u will b the same run run run as fast as u can ur sick thats ur gut instinct talkin listen to it
2007-03-18 11:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you cannot trust her..
Break up and stay away from her..
Move on...
2007-03-18 11:53:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you talking about her cheating on you, or her having been promiscuous before meeting you?
2007-03-18 11:54:42 · answer #10 · answered by BG 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋