my boyfriend is going back to his country ( africa ) for a whole month. we have a great relationship. he works all the time but we find time to see eachother. we are good friends but in a way im excited that he is leaving. i need time for me and to work on myself. what could be wrong with this situation? i want to feel what it feels like to miss him. we have been together for a year and some months now.
also should i worry about him cheating?
2007-03-18 04:49:37 · 6 answers · asked by pisces_dreamer06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No dear, don't worry. You have to put your trust in him. Use this time to yourself just like you planned, only without the stress.
2007-03-18 04:53:46 · answer #1 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, sometimes it is really nice to have an opportunity to miss someone. But, it sound as if you have trust issues. Has he hurt you before, if he has it will be hard to trust. This will indeed strain the relationship if he is away. If you are generally worried he will cheat, then you must work on your own trust issues before you can handle a long distance relationship for a while. There is nothing wrong with working on yourself. You are most importantly benefiting yourself by choosing to grow and in the long run your relationships will benefit. Good Luck.
2007-03-18 04:56:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sharisse F 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you are only boyfriend and girlfriend it is normal for you to feel a sense of relief , now you can be alone and focus all on yourself. . theres nothing wrong with that and i think it is quite normal. sometimes we do need some time to ourselves. however if you are worried about him cheating, is it because of a past event? how do you feel.. do you think you'll end up cheating on him? i know personaly when i was away from my sweetie, there were often times i thought about this very question. i knew he wouldnt cheat.. but i was wondering if he felt the every bit of want and desire i was feeling.. you lack someone to be in your life and well desire that love.. and even though i would never cheat.. temptation is all around you. its a chance for you to prove your commitment to one another with him being gone. sometime things werent met to be, being apart is one of the best challenges that can come to a relationship, in my opinion .
2007-03-18 04:55:33 · answer #3 · answered by COULDbCRAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's understandable that you want to have time for yourself and the opportunity to miss him. As far as "cheating"? It would depend on how high is sex drive is, what his feelings are about sexual/emotional intimacy, how likely you would be to "find out" if he would cheat on you, and how committed he is to monogamy.Personally I trust no one unless all the above conditions are favorable.
2007-03-18 05:11:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Africa is full of AIDS. If you two are sexually active, be very careful when he comes back. Use a condom until enough time has passed for the test to show yes or no. Good Luck and God Bless
2007-03-18 04:55:42 · answer #5 · answered by moonrose777 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are with wrong guy or you would be missing him not want to own him
2007-03-18 04:54:21 · answer #6 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋