we fight ..... a lot.... and i HATE fighting. i love him with all my heart and he loves me with all of his. i could never imagine my life without him ... he means to WORLD TO ME! we've been dating for 2 1/2 years.... i jusst want to stop arguing as much...
we are both stubborn. i get jelous and so does he. we dont like the same things...
someone help me!!!! please....
2007-03-18 04:44:34 · 17 answers · asked by cutiepieee♥ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you guys have to find a common ground between you again. Try to stay away from the little things that make you guys argue, and if they are a ton of big things that make you guys argue, you may have some issues that need to be resolved. I would say the best way though is just to have a serious talk, and get everything out in the open and discuss with one another how you can avoid fights, or what MUST be done to avoid fights.
2007-03-18 04:48:54 · answer #1 · answered by QB 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try spending some time apart. Not neccessarily the "time out" thing, but just don't spend every minute of everyday with him. Couples tend to get tired of each other and need a breather. It doesn't mean that they don't love each other. Also if they fights are triggered by things you both say. Before you say something, imagine if he said it to you? What would you think? Sometimes you have to step back and look at the big picture. What is it exactly that makes you two so irritable? If you end up arguing over past decisions because someone brought it up again, just drop it. The past is the past. Also you have to learn to compromise. Me and my fiance are very bullheaded, but we had to learn to put each other first. Just bite your tongue and go along, but remind him that we're doing what you want to do next time. Pay close attention to actually starts the fight. You may be suprised. I'm not implying anything but I've been known to provoke a few.
2007-03-18 11:55:42 · answer #2 · answered by Amanda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a great question and one that i have a wealth of experience in. My g/f and i used to have exctly the same problem so one day i suggested that rather than continue to fight we simply express our love for oneanother in a more productive way, with the sweet, smooth and sexy feeling of skullphucking. Let me know how you get on ;-)
2007-03-18 11:55:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is all about accommodating each other and respecting each other. Just be openminded, tolerant and patient. Try to ignore small things and concentrate on each other positive aspects. In just few days, you will feel the difference
2007-03-18 11:58:03 · answer #4 · answered by Kehgohar R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its good you recognize that you are both the cause of the arguing.. your not blamming one another. thats a start. have you tryed talking to him about it. explain to him you dont want to always be arguing and that you want your relationship to be much smoother. ? if it cant be resolved i would get out.. you'll find someone who you can get along with. it'll make life much easier to live through. trust me its tough enough even having a partner who you can get along with. you dont need someone who is going to make it much more stressful on you.
2007-03-18 11:49:48 · answer #5 · answered by COULDbCRAZY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Common interest is always a good component in a relationship. And like in any relationship, if you two are fighting, then give each other space.
2007-03-18 11:50:42 · answer #6 · answered by Solar Ball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't mean this in a bad way, but you both need to grow up. You have to realize you love each other and that jealousy is a waste of your energy.
2007-03-18 11:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by Stuck in the middle of nowhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it will be best for both of you to get away from each other for awhile and see what happens. one of you are gonna have to give in and quit being so stubborn all the time. belive me being jealous just will push you further and further apart. it will never work.
2007-03-18 11:51:15 · answer #8 · answered by screamin_demon_1200 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
time to move on get a new boyfriend or try just separating for a while sounds like you both are in each others space
2007-03-18 11:48:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe sometimes instead of fighting you can throw in the towel and agree with him, or tell him that you hate when you fight.
2007-03-18 11:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by croutonn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋