I'm in a sticky situation with a former male friend of mine. We were close friends b4, but we had joked about hooking up until I got upset with him since I ended up wanting to and felt like he was disrespecting me. I ended up calling him a dog since he has a gf/fiancee overseas and was talking to me about doing it. Anyway I ended up writing a letter to him apologizing to him and he told me I was too weird to be his friend since I gave him mixed signals. He emailed me telling me I needed therapy and that I should get a bf and some friends. When he emailed me this, I was hurt and had been ignoring him for a month, but I could tell he would look at me and try to make me jealous by talking to other girls. I think he realized he had hurt my feelings since I could tell he looked guilty sometimes. I went up to him and said hi and he said hi. He looked at me like he wanted to talk. I can tell he is uncomfortable and I don't want to bug him.
2007-03-18 04:37:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont bother with him, he is playing mind games
2007-03-18 04:42:04 · answer #1 · answered by sarah_652468 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone.. he sounds like an idiot.. first he is talking about hooking up or joking about it still.. y would anyone who has a fiancee be talking about hooking up wit someone else... then he gets your hopes up( which was kinda your fault too cuz you knew he had a fiancee) but yet he says that you were the one who was sending the mixed signal... he sounds like the type that jus wants to mess around.. you quit worrying about he feels and worry about yourself.. if he wants to talk let him come to you and make all the first moves that way he cant throw anything up your face later on down the road.. also that email he wrote was really mean and made him sound like a d***.. that right there would of been enough for me but apparently not for you cuz YOU still went up to him not HIM coming to you..
2007-03-18 04:54:43 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_cotton_candy_gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats somewhat complicated for a short forum such as here.
Back off some. If he really wants a relationship he will make a move. If he just wants to play mind games he will continue trying to make you jealous.
You need your mind to be on other more happy things. Occupy yourself with friends. This is just eating you up.
2007-03-18 04:54:04 · answer #3 · answered by sparbles 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmmm. I think that you should tell him that it hurts your feelings and that he needs to stop. Tell him that you want to be friends (or w/e) and it cant go on like this. Glad I could help.
2007-03-18 04:42:26 · answer #4 · answered by bershnark 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should talk to him i was in this situation and not talking to him its only going to make things worse.
2007-03-18 04:43:46 · answer #5 · answered by jugillet chick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't waste your time. You don't owe him a thing. He's right you need to get out and make new friends.
2007-03-18 04:43:03 · answer #6 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go with ur gut instinct here find all the negative emotional words in ur question then dump him move on
2007-03-18 04:40:56 · answer #7 · answered by mmbmw2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should give him some time for him to see who he likes...just play it cool
2007-03-18 05:09:39 · answer #8 · answered by Muslim Patriot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave the drama behind you.
2007-03-18 04:40:56 · answer #9 · answered by txgirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you still want that hook up cause you need him so bad
2007-03-18 04:43:01 · answer #10 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋