and I'm not ugly !
what's wrong?
(I don't think I'm intimidating either)
2007-03-18 04:35:30 · 19 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't approach them because I'm shy and because I like men to do the first moves,I'm old school I know :)
2007-03-18 04:46:22 · update #1
Continue to be yourself and they will come flocking. Timing is everything.
2007-03-18 04:39:57 · answer #1 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I am 20 years old and just got my first boyfriend and he is really cute and sweet. I never thought I'd find a guy a like him who would want me after never having a boyfriend. After all that time you kinda lose confidence and assume you are ugly. I know I am kinda intimidating though bc I dont walk around smiling. Are you shy? Do you smile? Why dont you approach a guy you find attractive? Dont worry you'll find someone, I used to be in the same boat as you.
2007-03-18 04:40:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem, I am told many times by all the people I know, that I am gorgous, but guys won't ask me out... I am not intimidating, but I know I could do better if I got out more, maybe flirt, and make other people feel comfortable, they will give me a second look, it's worked a few times, but I have to really show my true colors, and then they get the courage to show they like me. Get out more, have fun, and being single doesn't have to be lonly or suck, so just go have fun, and don't worry.
2007-03-25 11:59:40 · answer #3 · answered by TheExpert 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-26 20:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok, the "right guy" will find you and you dont have to worry about him being "afraid of you" or one of the creepos.
Just wait, have a lot of fun with your girlfriends.
When my best friend and I were happiest and perfectly content to be single for a long while because we were having so much fun, going dancing, college clubs... ect that's when both our men appeared and we were married with in 3 weeks of each other.
You dont need to look, when you not looking is when it finds you.
2007-03-26 03:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by Blessed Rain 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act and demonstrate that you are approachable with guys.
You can do this by approaching them first as in your school, office or in the community.
The guys will recognize this good attitude of yours and they will chase you.
2007-03-26 01:11:02 · answer #6 · answered by PJA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your body language or maybe your very good looking (most guys are intimidated by good looking women).
P.S. Cute story Nicole.
2007-03-18 04:41:40 · answer #7 · answered by surffsav 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they think you're too good for them :p
or
Are you a shy person? Maybe you could try acting more confident and showing that you feel good about yourself etc.
2007-03-18 04:40:34 · answer #8 · answered by kaykay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i have the same problem lol and i don't really see why guys don't approach me but my girlfriends say its because there scared to talk to me so thats probably your same problem too. and i'm also kinda shy but i find the only way i can get them to talk to me is me getting over my shiness and just talking to them
2007-03-25 21:02:44 · answer #9 · answered by eden21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only guess that you are good looking and guys are intimated by you. But if you are single, I would go out with you.
2007-03-18 05:21:54 · answer #10 · answered by Ben N 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋