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Question

Ladies, i've been with my boyfriend for 10months now, and we've done the lot, apart from sex.
i'm 15, almost 16
And i'm 100 percent sure about this.
I'm on the pill aswell so there will be no unwanted pregnancy's thank god.
But my question is, what is it like first time?
thank you.

Answer 1

They all will say, it is painful etc. Don't believe anything unless you try it all by yourself.. BUT WHY ARE YOU ASKING ABOUT SEX WHEN YOU ARE ONLY 15??

Answer 2

At your age... well, the above poster isn't far wrong.

Your body isn't fully developed yet, and neither is his. There's a lot of awkwardness to first time sex, and not being physically ready for it can just make that worse. It can be painful, although it's better/worse for some women than others.

The pill isn't 100%, so use condoms too, every time.

That said.... ever seen a puppy -- like a Great Dane puppy, with huge paws and legs and no coordination -- try to chase a butterfly and trip over itself and fall, then look confused? Add in a knock on the head for the varied amounts of discomfort, and that's what teenage sex can be like.

Keep playing the "everything but" game for a while. It's better later in life than it can ever be at your age.

Answer 3

It's hard to really tell you what it's like the first time, because it's different for everyone, but almost always expect pain that first time, not all girls experience pain the first time, but let me tell you, I had pain the first time, and every time after that, and I have been sexually involved with my boyfriend since before he was my boyfriend. Just relax and make sure that it's something you really want to do, don't just jump the gun, as long as the environment and mood are right, there shouldn't be any problems, and it shouldn't be too bad, if it's bad at all.

Answer 4

I personally think that your WAY to young. At age 15 you have better things to be doing then getting into trouble!! You may feel ready, but as people stated your emotionally and physically not ready. It's totally ok to wait!! Don't waste your teen years with sex. It's to big of a responsibility. Talk it over with your mom, if your confused about anything. Yes, sex doesn't feel good the first time..It hurts. You should forget about it know and worry about it when your age is right. If your Boyfriend pressures you, make the right choice!

Best wishes.<3

Answer 5

Im 15 almost 16 also. lost my v-card a few months ago. The frist time it will hurt. But not like a crying kind of hurt it more the less like you want to make noise kind of hurt. Its not that bad so when people tell you "it hurts like one of the worst things ever" do NOT lissen to them!! it will be shorter then ever other time and it won't feel the best. You might want to put down a towel because he MIGHT pop your cherry and you might bleed all over the bed. This is what happened to me. But not all girls get their cherry poped the first time. Oh when your done just remenber it keeps feeling better and better because then 2nd time it will also hurt a little bit also. Oh also remember that you will not be "good" the first time. Sex is like a sport and take practice.

Good luck girlie!! =]

Answer 6

It should be leagl according to the state or country law for age of consent. Most important, you should be sure that that's the guy u wna make love to for the first time cuz once u lose ur virginity, it never comes back. First time should be special. U shouldn't do something that ur gona repent later. If ur perfectly ready n have reached the age of consent, then there could be nothing better way to combine two souls..good luck on d decision!

Answer 7

It is important to make sure the 1st is the most specail, otherwise ur pureness and innocence will have been a waste. if u are sure it is still good to wait for a lil while longer, guys can get you in bed then be done with you. you need to be able to understand that a man will have sex then lose interest with you after he's done.

Be safe, think about it, and the right answer will come to you...(no pun intended) [lol]

But really, i have faith in you.

Be strong...

Answer 8

well is it his first time as well ? that will make alot of difference. I think you are a bit too young yet.. i would wait another year or so. i am not saying you are not ready for it.. but chances are you are still in school.. and the pill isnt always one hundred percent. but even aside from pregnancy if you sleep around with guys this young, you'll probably have a whole rooster of ones you've slept with my your twentys.. and then you get a bad reputation. why is it that you want to have sex with him, because you are curious.. ? or because you want to show him you love him.. cause if thats the case there are so many ways to show him how much you love him without giving yourself away to him.

Answer 9

At that age it might be a bit painful. What you need to do is get your very own vibrator and warm yourself up a bit. You will figure out what you like and then can tell him. Guys are notoriously lost in space for the first 30 years or so. But aside from that, sex with you is illegal and could land him in jail.

Answer 10

Having a bf that long is great, but you are too young to be having sex!!!!! I know that you are going to do what you want to do tho.. its different for everyone. some girls bleed, some dont. It does hurt tho, I know for me it was uncomfortable like the first 10 times. Even tho ur on the pill dont forget condoms...there are a lot of STD's out there...

Answer 11

im 13 and i have sex all the time with my bf the first time was wen i was 11 it hurt but i got used to it just dont sleep around too much or ull b just a hoe after u get used to the pain its great!! you just need to try it but aside from the pill use condoms too its better safe than sorry