My daughter is coming to visit me while her hubby is going on a head wetting do!!! She does not have many friends, and is quite lonely. She does not know the people I would invite, because they would mostly be work mates, but would it be acceptable to host a baby welcome party?? I do think it would make her feel special, and would put a face to the names of people I tell her about... and would also be good for my friends to meet her? What do yu think??
2007-03-18 04:17:45 · 11 answers · asked by fuzzynubes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I think it would be great. It would make her happy and give you both something to do. It would probably make her feel special and she'd get to show off her new baby. New moms love nothing more than to show off their new little one. It would be fun for you, ur daughter, and all of ur friends. It would give you something to do instide of just sitting around. Plus I'm sure your daughter would love some of the new gifts ( I mean if there were to be any at the party). Have fun and congrats on the new grandchild!
2007-03-18 04:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would consider a baby welcoming party acceptable, but there are a things you should take into consideration before planning your party.
1. I would definitely ask your daughter's opinion because a surprise to someone who doesn't have many friends could be overwhelming. The party should be stress free for her and her new baby. Comfort should be your number 1 goal with what could potentially be awkward for her.
2. Consider how much time she will be spending with you. If she is only visiting for a couple days, she may have planned on sharing all of her time with you on a one on one basis. I'm assuming she lives farther away since you haven't seen the new baby yet.
3. Sometimes baby showers are thrown after birth in some situations. If you styled the party in this manner, it may make things more comfortable since she doesn't know the guests. Baby showers generally include several ice breakers that help everyone get to know each other. You don't have to actually call it a baby shower, but you can steal some ideas from baby shower planning websites.
Goodluck and have fun. Enjoy spending time with your new grandchild.
2007-03-18 11:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by babbling_brooke 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you know her best and if she would feel too awkward.
But aside from that, if you work people are good friends, and would come for fun and not feel obligated, it sounds like a wonderful way for you and your daughter to celbrate baby!
Maybe make it a "come meet my new grandbaby party". That might take the pressure off your daughter.
2007-03-18 11:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the majority here. however i would not make it a surprise party.. tell the mom, to be sure she isn't tooo shocked. ask her first what her favourites foods are. then tell her you will be making 2 - 3 of them if you have a party for them. also let your friends know she is a very special mom and not to leave her out of the mix. also let her know you are very proud of her and would like to show her off, just a little.
2007-03-18 11:31:16 · answer #4 · answered by pbear i 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And why not? Go ahead and throw your baby party, I am sure your daughter would be very appreciative (I wish I could be there too). Good luck with your party.
2007-03-18 11:23:46 · answer #5 · answered by markos m 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
congratulations on becoming a grandparent!!
i think its a lovely idea, and she will be pleased you want to give your friends a chance to welcome the baby, just what she needs since hubby is away, i'm sure you'll all have a wonderful time!!
Well done you!!
2007-03-18 11:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by ♠ Merlin ♠ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the baby is a new born & if she didn't have a baby shower then yes I would. Ask her & some of your friends their feelings about it.
2007-03-18 11:34:18 · answer #7 · answered by day by day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't see anything wrong with it, you are a good mother for thinking of her and it would make her feel special and not like she is alone go for it.
2007-03-18 11:28:34 · answer #8 · answered by Marla D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your comfortable and your friends have come to other gatherings of yours,, most certainly women have a knack to joining in at parties.
2007-03-18 11:25:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a great idea!! it will make her feel special and dont we all need that at times, especially after a baby.
2007-03-18 11:23:41 · answer #10 · answered by sugar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋