I have started to attend church groups since last month. I have had small talks with a 25 yo ladee I met at one group. I've talked to her a few times - there were times where I had to cut off the conversation because it was getting late.
she asked for my email and number last week which I politely gave her. she was going to send me more information on the group which she did. why does she need my number for that?
Today I went to one of their activities day. She was there all dressed nice with (might i add) the nice shoes. When she was leaving with her friends she said if I want to have coffee to discuss anything.
I'm new to the church scene so I'm not sure what is appropriate behaviour...
2007-03-18 04:05:59 · 10 answers · asked by tripppah 3 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The appropriate thing to do would be to join her for a coffee and maybe ask her out on a date.
Looks like she likes you.
All the best!
Cheers!
ST
2007-03-18 04:17:20 · answer #1 · answered by In Memory of Simon Templar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to coffee with the group. You'll enjoy some good fellowship that way and get to know more people. It's possible she likes you but it's not always a good idea to assume someone who likes you is immediately interested in more than a friendship. She may have wanted your number to include you in group meetings or invite you out with a group of friends, to include you with others. Over time you'll understand more about the nature of what she expects. Just keep things simple at first and enjoy meeting new friends.
2007-03-18 11:17:04 · answer #2 · answered by kaehya2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now, she is thinking she is sharing her faith. Do not assume more. In a female mind, it's important to dress nicely so that the other doesn't think " A Christian should care how they look, and you don't" Really! Best foot forward, that's all. Women look for excuses to dress up.
Just wait and see what happens.
2007-03-18 11:20:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
church or no, civilized behavior is called for -- just go with
the flow, folks that do the church scene are really quite
human with the normal human feelings etc. Most just try
their best to live up to certain moral codes.
2007-03-18 11:13:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How many times and in how many categories do you need to ask the same question?
She probably liked you. Of all the things you noticed about her, the shoes stood out? Interesting.
2007-03-18 11:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by glitterkittyy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me that she likes you! Asking your number and dressing up the next time you saw her. Just think this could be the beginning of a new romance!
2007-03-18 11:11:16 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is trying to let you know that she likes you, and would like to "get to know you better". She is trying to leave to way open for you to ask her out. If your feelings are not mutual, then just don't take her up on it, and if they are mutual, then ask her out for coffee, and go from there, but take it slowly, and get to know her better, just in case it does have something to do with church stuff. Simple.
2007-03-18 11:23:06 · answer #7 · answered by beatlefan 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was in the Army the Seargent used to stamp his foot when he was giving information that was important to remember.
STAMP, STAMP, STAMP
Ask her out, act like a normal guy on a first date and see what happens.
2007-03-18 11:14:05 · answer #8 · answered by Village Player 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to coffee, if you'd like... then you can decide if it's friendly or flirty.
2007-03-18 11:11:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang her.
god wants you to. if he didn't then he wouldn't have given you the opportunity
2007-03-18 11:10:18 · answer #10 · answered by philosophizer 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋