okay my sister is 13 and he is like 15.....is that wrong?
2007-03-18 03:57:00 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just as long as its harmless dating. no going out alone and all that. there is definitly an age gap, and the 15 year old is going to want more, and im sure he knows more that your sister does. just make sure you keep an eye out for your sis. it seems harmless, but you dont want her getting into trouble.
2007-03-18 04:00:28 · answer #1 · answered by Ash 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, it really isn't, but when comparing ages relative to what category an age belongs, 13 is young for a 15 year old, but 31 is nothing for a 33 year old, really.
Teens are a different story (even more so these days). Some may be mega-horny and some only want to feel affection then get tired of it soon after. I say no, not now unless like other people said, this boy's reputation is a good one.
2007-03-18 10:57:07 · answer #2 · answered by Zygie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your sister and the boy. If your sister is especially naiive and hes trying to take advantage of that, maybe hes too old.
If hes really mature, and your sister isnt. Its too much.
I dont think 2 years is a bad age difference, at all, just make sure shes not getting taken advantage of.
Also, try not to be a buzz kill. I'm sure shes VERY excited that an older, high school boy has asked her out. Caution her but dont steal her thunder.
Good Luck.
2007-03-18 04:02:46 · answer #3 · answered by real_estate_barbie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is just fine. as long as you know him well. otherwise, he may be horny and want sex from her. that's how many high schoolers are these days. if you do know him well, then yes, she can go out with him if she likes and trusts the guy. just think: most married people aren't the exact same age. for example, the man could be 30 and the woman could be only like 22. that's eight years apart, and your sister and the 9th grader are only like two years apart.
2007-03-18 04:03:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relationship wise, it is fine. I don't think anyone should be in a relationship at such young ages, but that's just my opinion. There isn't a lot of difference between a 13 year old and a 15 year old. She should be careful, but not paranoid.
2007-03-18 04:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by Joey 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why is it wrong?? u should tell ur sister to be cautious, and make sure that the guy wont do anything that she doesnt want him to do. she must test him and make sure that he is really respectful, and that he won't do anything to harm her. that s something she must find on her own. good luck, and hope that he is a respectful guy for ur sister
2007-03-18 04:01:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, thats what big sisters are for! give her the benefit of your advice, and make sure she listens. Nothing wrong with friendship at that age, i am sure she will be sensible if she listens to you.
2007-03-18 04:21:09 · answer #7 · answered by newciderman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its young, but now days dating seems to be getting younger and younger. First, i think the parents should make sure this boy is "decent." And approve of where he plans on taking her out to.
2007-03-18 04:02:05 · answer #8 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
um, if she is in seventh grade, then she might be too young. if she is in eighth grade, then probably not. because next year they will be in the same school. she should probably wait until she's older. if he genuinely likes her and he passes the big sister test, then don't worry, too much. hope this helps.
2007-03-18 08:45:43 · answer #9 · answered by sweetcherrypie_♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not realy if she just dates and no sex it is ok just tell her all about how life works and she will make her own ecision even if u tell her she cant and she wants to she will do it anyway just teach her about getting pregent how at that age it can mess up hr life nd tch her about birthcontrol and if she is taught right she will make the wright choice
2007-03-20 04:15:45 · answer #10 · answered by greek12b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋