2007-03-18 03:46:50 · 7 answers · asked by twirlgirl17 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wish I knew the answer to this...I'm going through the same thing...trying to get over a guy who only wanted me when it was convenient for him - but didn't want anyone else to have me. I have a new bf, and the old one accused me of using the new one to "fill a void" which I'm starting to think is the truth.
Maybe the answer is to not be with anyone until you're over the old one completely?
2007-03-18 03:51:24 · answer #1 · answered by in love love love... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have a bf if you aren't over the other guy. It's not fair to him or to you. Look at the position that you are in now because of it. You should really think about what it is that you can't get over about the guy and also remember what made you break up in the first place. Obviously you weren't compatable or you would still be together. You don't even have to have a bf if you aren't ready to move on. It's ok to be without a bf or gf. If you need to, you can take time off from your bf until you figure out what it is that you want for yourself. Good Luck!
2007-03-18 10:52:09 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that the best thing for u to do is to end ur relatinooship with ur boyfriend. if u are still in love with that other guy, i tink that either u should get with him, or find someone else that u really like as much as him. it is not fair to ur boyfriend, that u will be with him, while u r thinking about the other guy. and in the long run, u will end up hurting ur boyfriend and urself because u r not ready to have a relationship with someone other than that other guy. if that other guy is an ex, and u guys broke up for whatever reason and he doesnt intend on going back with u, i think u should give urself a lil rest, dont get involved in any relationship until u r really ready for it, because otherwise u ll just end up hurting both urself, and ur boyfriend along the way. good luck, i hope everything turns out fine
2007-03-18 10:53:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ideally you shouldn't have a boyfriend (or girlfriend) until you've gotten over your previous one. It's VERY unkewl to move on before you are ready, not to mention unflattering to your new partner. How would you feel if you learned the guy you were with was still pining over his ex? Not so good, huh?
Take a break from current guy and work through the feelings you have for your ex. Put that situation away before you move on with someone else. That person is your ex for a reason.
2007-03-18 10:50:54 · answer #4 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Plan A: Just go to your b/f and say. "Hey look, I got a situation and I need you to fall back. I'm not going anywhere baby, I just need to get over this other guy so I can love you completely like a man should be loved. Please don't doubt if you are the one I truly want, but he shattered my heart and the pieces need to be mended back together. You know what they say honey, time heals all wounds. I just need a little time.
Plan B: Cry in the dark, cherish the memories, learn from your/his mistakes.
2007-03-18 11:29:43 · answer #5 · answered by crush 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with the bf. You aren't giving him your all if you are wanting the other guy. It's not fair to him or you.
2007-03-18 10:50:25 · answer #6 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on how strong your feelings are for him.
2007-03-18 10:49:52 · answer #7 · answered by M!sta Carter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋