She want's do date other people...?

Question

what should i do. I'm 15, we moved from germany to oklahoma. and my girlfriend in germany wants to date other people, but not break up.

i can't date other people because i love her way too much. what should i do?

Answer 1

sounds like she's been seeing someone since before you left... and probably having sex with them... :D dump her... :D

Answer 2

Although I'm sure that you love her and you don't want to move on, if you really truly love her you will want her to be happy and respect that she is not 100% for the long distance relationship. It would be one thing if you both wanted to date exclusively despite the distance, I mean it would be difficult given that you are so far apart, but if you loved eachother enough you could make it work. However, the fact that she wants to date other people is a pretty clear indicator that you both should move on and make the most of your lives living apart. Keep in touch, and if it is meant to be in the end, then it will be. I know this must be a heartache, but best of luck to you!

Answer 3

Okay, I'm sorry but that makes no sense for her to want to see other people but NOT break up. Long distance relationships are really rough too, so if you two did stay together then there could be problems. Your best bet is to try to move on. Most likely you'll get over her and date new people-that is when your ready to move on.

Answer 4

If loved her "way too much" then you shouldn't have left the continent. How can you expect someone on the other side of the world to be happy being your gf. I'm sure that she is only saying that she doesn't want to break up because she doesn't want to hurt your feelings. My guess is that she has seen a guy that she likes and she wants to be with him. She gave you story about dating other people because she felt guilty. Trust me, she is gone. You left so now she needs someone to be with. In the near future you can expect her to break up with you or just stop communicating with you. She is going to get with the other guy. Trust me on this one. You would be better to just get over her because she's not your girlfriend anymore.

Answer 5

these long distance relationships don't work (more often than not)

secondly - seeing other people has already crossed her mind, she is just keeping you informed ( i don't think its permission she is asking for )

let her see as many people she like & you go ahead & figure out how can you make this thing work with an atlantic between the two of you & what happens if she comes across some one she really clicks with.....!

reality bites.....but there is little you can do other than accepting it.

Answer 6

date other people

Answer 7

you're still young. if your girlfriend cannot be loyal to you and want to start dating other men, then let her go it's not fair to you. she wants the best of both worlds.. she wants to see if there's something better for her out there, and yet doesn't want to let you go just so she'd always have a fall back. besides, you are only 15... i know it's hard to believe this, but there will be other girls.

Answer 8

Move on. You're 15 and a long distance relationship is not the best for you. You will met plenty of girls in your lifetime.

Answer 9

You too should date others and try the same

Answer 10

if she wants to date other ppl then she dont want u so i know it will be hard but the best thing to do is break up with her and staart looking 4 someone eles cuz if she dont want u then she is not worth it .

Answer 11

you are to far apart and far to young to commit yourself to one person at this time . so move on and let her do the same you can allways remain bestfriends forever!