I've been trying to figure it out myself, but I can't get anything.Maybe you know.If you don't know exactly, just share what you think.But I don't get it, what makes us so attracted to boys/girls?
2007-03-18 03:18:30 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-03-18 03:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by dee_ann 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Part of it is to do with our basic instincts (i.e. survival etc.). In this case it is the drive to reproduce, and create the best young possible so that the will survive in the big wide world. Think of it as if a weak animal a strong animal mate they have a chance of having a "weak" offspring, which in the animal world would either die from lack of food (as stronger animals would get there first) or be killed by the stronger animals for food, territory etc. So animals evolved a subconscious method of picking the most compatible mate to give them "strong" offspring so that the blood line can be continued for many generations.
Also subconsciously all animals (including humans) are affected by hormone levels of others around us, which may be the reason due to which the opposite sexes are generally attracted.
Overall there is probably not one definitive reason but more an amalgamation of many others, but in essence we have to thank parts left over from previous stages of evolution.
2007-03-18 10:29:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Scientifically there are many reasons why any 2 people get attracted to each other.....some of them are
1. similarity
2. proximity
3. looks
4. behavior and attitude towards each other
we initially start by knowing the person, which is only possible if we see that person often or atleast talk to him or her often. Once we get to know the person more and find that our thoughts match or we think the same way we start talking to that person even more...like become good friends...and then the emotions come into play and we might fall in live with that person.
2007-03-18 10:27:39 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well ... i just think that love always comes when we least expect it .. i mean i was single for like a year after breaking up with my ex and i was dying to fall in love again , my friends kept setting me up in too many dates but none of them seemed to be the right person ... however, as long as , i stopped searching and i started to enjoy my life as a single ... i found Mr right .. and that's the irony of fate ... i am so graceful for this year coz if i've met him earlier , i wouldn't love him for his personnality , i'd just be desperate for love . now back to ur question , there isn't a specific reason to fall in love , it just happens , when we look at this person , deal with him and suddenly you wonder how have u been living all this time without him ? when you can't imagine ur life if he wasn't there , when you can't spend a whole day without calling him and finally when one word of him can make u the happiest or the saddest person on earth , this is love .. u can't just explain it , it just happens ... without it , we are simply robots
2007-03-18 10:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by chocolate 90 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wen ur in love... every little thing about that person is maximised and u just see them as this amasing person! wen ppl say 2 me ur not in love.. EXCUSE me i think i no,, all humans expreince it well not all but at some point in there life its like having a disaese being in love.. ive been inlove with this man since i was 15 and 17 now and i still am i dunno how long it will take for my feelings for him to disapper i hope they do eventually because he is going to get married and he is different older and u no.. wen i saw him i my heart just wouldnt stop beating and i just was in shock as well like wow the gods have sent him dwn from heaven i was a young nieve girl and still am and apprantly im very vunrable **** OF im not vunrable im me 17 yr olds arnt vunrable they can be but im a strong preson! i will suceed inlife dnt let love rule ur life well if ur in love it effects everything!! not goood :(
2007-03-18 10:28:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many reasons...
1) insecurity
2) follow others
3) experimental
4) good looking/beautiful person
5) constant contact with the same person
6) to make others jealous
7) TO WALK ABOUT AND SHOW OFF YOUR CONQUEST
8) last but not least.. YOU CARE FOR HIM/HER AND WANT TO TAKE CARE OF HIM/HER AND WANT TO SHARE YOUR LOVE/JOY WITH HIM/HER
2007-03-18 10:25:11 · answer #6 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man: a womans boobs are often the reason.
Women: the way they look and the way they do stuff like caring for the community.
2007-03-18 10:24:43 · answer #7 · answered by jsg1435 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's all about the brain. People are attracted to those based on scents and things that trigger signals in the brain.
2007-03-18 10:21:35 · answer #8 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Chemical reactions in the brain basically. The bare bones reason we feel love isn't all that romantic at all.
2007-03-18 10:21:07 · answer #9 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It just happens. You don't get to choose who you will fall in love with. That's why you shouldn't fool around with anyone you don't want to fall for.
2007-03-18 10:23:34 · answer #10 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know i can not tell a lie on this,lol that damm love bug bite me, an it just keep on bitten me,, damm that love bug lool,,, lol hugs
2007-03-18 10:25:13 · answer #11 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋