I like having a sex life, so that's a downside of getting married, no more sex, but is it worth it?
2007-03-18 03:17:45 · 16 answers · asked by Let's Go Muddin' 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's worth it with the right person. But who is the right person? That's the real question here. 50% of marriages fail, and the % goes up as you get older.
I think if your relationship includes a solid Christian life you have a much better chance at success.
2007-03-18 03:36:17 · answer #1 · answered by Credit Expert 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been married and divorced. I didn't mind being married until I realized that the sex just wasn't there any more. Getting divorced cost me a fortune and the saying it's cheaper to keep them is true. Just stay dating and if things don't work out then there is an open door no courts involved. I have an uncle who is with this woman I consider an aunt they have been together 30 plus years and neither one wants to get married and they are so damn happy it's pathetic. Yeah you'll never share your last name with some one but who the hell cares if you love the person that much and it works out for you.
2007-03-18 10:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by xxmack675hpxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on why u r getting married. If u think the other person is going to make u 'happy', u probably will get disappointed. If u want to have lots of sexual partners, why even bother about marriage? If you are concerned about sex-life after marraige, u might want to discuss this with ur partner before u tie the knot.
2007-03-18 11:00:07 · answer #3 · answered by maya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who says sex is over when you get married??? My goodness, I have be married for 20 years and it gets better with age. Is getting married worth it?? Yes, at least you know who you are having sex with and not out there getting all kinds of STD's :)
2007-03-18 10:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by dakota_gal_1968 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage means that you can still have sex, just with the one person you love. If you want a family, want children, and a secure life, then marriage is worth it. Marriage bonds a relationship and creates a promise that the love you have for each other will never end.
2007-03-18 10:22:27 · answer #5 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
After you get married the sex probably gets better there is just not a variety. I mean I say quality over quantity.Also if you love some one enough then it wil become important. If you value your sex life over the quality of the relationship then dont get married.
2007-03-18 10:24:07 · answer #6 · answered by Micro spice 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its soooo worth it!! You're finally happy. You have someone that loves you, cares for you, thinks you are so special. And who there's NO sex life?
2007-03-18 10:23:04 · answer #7 · answered by everafter <3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's the right person, then yes. Your sex life isn't over once you get married, it gets better over time.
2007-03-18 10:24:12 · answer #8 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well, love isn't exactly ALL about sex.Think about it, do you really love this person?If you do, than yes, it's worth a life time of happiness!
2007-03-18 10:25:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if all you are after is sex then pay for it ---- marriage is much more than sex and if you dont know that then no one can tell you
2007-03-18 10:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋