I have feelings for one of my friends her name is jamie she is really pretty and a totally awesome person and i have asked her out, and she said we can go out as friends but what if i want more than that later on?
2007-03-18 03:12:10 · 8 answers · asked by Rock 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with it and pursue her. The best relationships, the ones that last, were built on friendship. There has to be more than physical attraction and lust since that will eventually fade over time if that is all there is.
2007-03-18 03:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I hate to say this but she has made it clear that it's only going to be as friends. If you push to hard you could end up losing her as a friend. Dating a really good friend could lead to bad things like losing her as a friend all together. Is that some thing your willing to do if things don't work out between you. Maybe you should just try to get your feelings on a leash and hold back so you and her don't get hurt. I'd rather keep her as a friend then chance losing her friendship all together for ever
2007-03-18 10:18:47 · answer #2 · answered by xxmack675hpxx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she has told you she just wants to go out as friends then you have probably already struck out. If you want more than that then you are probably only asking for trouble, but you never know. She may finally begin thinking the same way about you. I began dating one of my best friends after she dumped a guy she had dated for 5 years and it didn't work out for us and know we rarely ever talk to each other so be careful.
2007-03-18 10:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by duediligencebeforeinvesting 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be up front with her. Tell her you have feelings for her more than just a friend. You have to be prepared to suffer the consequence..which may be losing her as a friend. If you don't want to lose her friendship don't ask her out.
2007-03-18 10:16:24 · answer #4 · answered by Splitters 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take one date at a time. Why make problems now. You might not even want more later on. And she might want more later on. You never know how things turn out. So don't panic.
2007-03-18 10:18:30 · answer #5 · answered by michelebaruch 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget her, all ur feelings, all ur desires, all ur dreams and fantasies, she just don't want 2 d8 u, ur only friends, nothing else, look on anyone else, im sorry that she rejected u, cause i think she loose a gr8 person, but think that u could loose her if u d8 her & then broke up, best have her as friend, unless u become a friend of her because u liked her, think of her as a friend, maybe even a best friend, but nothing else
2007-03-19 13:00:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
should you "want" more when she doesn't want to give you any....???
don't go on a pity date ( you know - "how could I say no....he would have felt soooo bad....... I agreed to go out with him only once ).....ask her to hook you up some hot friend of her....that will let out her true feeling for you...!!!
2007-03-18 10:20:02 · answer #7 · answered by Radical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here's a word of advice my dad taught me - and its so true:
When she says, "lets just start as friends and see where it goes from there"...what she means is "You can spend time and money on me, but I will never, ever sleep with you. Ever."
Move on, brother.
2007-03-18 10:20:47 · answer #8 · answered by Gary 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋