When getting dumped? What to do when somebody dumps you?
2007-03-18 03:05:48 · 12 answers · asked by nausea guy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Rejection never felt good at all.
Getting dumped ain't a good experience, whether the relationship if for fun or for real.
Everyone wants acceptance & affection.
But getting dumped is liberating, giving you the space to nurture & refresh yourself, giving you the freedom to choose a partner wisely, giving you the freedom to love again, giving you the freedom to be with someone who deserves you just the way you are, as you are to the special someone you are bound to find.
Take care :)
2007-03-18 03:10:04 · answer #1 · answered by Queenie Tay 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You will feel sad for a few days or more. then all what you can do is just get on with your life that's all you can do. sorry that you got dumped.
2007-03-18 10:13:30 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels bad cuz you feel like you did something wrong and weren't good enuf and that you are trash dumped alongside the road. you are NOT. believe me, some people are just mean and don't care about yoru feelings, or maybe you guys weren't right for each other. time will make you feel better but just know that it'll be ok!!good luck
2007-03-18 10:13:15 · answer #3 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't be sorry.....improve, there must be some reason why you got dumped.....& by the way if u didn't realize.....its a dog eat dog world out there.....so the best thing to do when some one dumps you is to start the hunt all over again....!!!
2007-03-18 10:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by Radical 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why it happened? Did you in anyway contribute for him/her to dump you. The past is gone. Learn from this experience and move forward.
2007-03-18 10:10:51 · answer #5 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you cared about the other person. Some people subconsciously take it as they have a flaw, which is not true. Some people aren't made for each other. Look at the bright side, you now get to meet someone that is right for you.
2007-03-18 10:10:33 · answer #6 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cry..then pull yourself up by the bootstraps and tell yourself it just wasn't meant to be. Remind yourself your a good person, your worthy of another's attention, say oh well, smile and enjoy life.
Try not to beat yourself up too much. We ALL make mistakes. Try to learn from the mistakes, find the good things that you discovered about yourself and others from the relationship and go on.
Count your blessings! :)
2007-03-18 10:20:19 · answer #7 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess the key point is the most difficult part is 'dying' without an answer to why it happen. But in my humble opinion, any relationship that has become single sided is not worth continuing. Imagine if you guys have even bigger crisis, how are u going to deal with together? Cheers.
2007-03-18 10:12:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's a natural reaction. You feel rejected. Just pick your pride up and keep your head high and you will find someone who is much better for you. Hang in there.
2007-03-18 10:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by luh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are human with emotions and feelings and we hurt;however,we get through it and life must go on.. They just were not meant for you....
2007-03-18 10:10:41 · answer #10 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋