I am a very shallow person and I always tend to go for looks rather than anything else. I am very picky when it comes to going out with girls. Ok I like a nice voice, good presence, when girls are sweet. Well I treat girls nicely. I'd do anything for a girl but the things is I can't overcome my shallowness and when I see a pretty girl, I just go for her even if I have a girlfriend at a time. Now other people started to notice this in me and I don't know what to do. Am I only searching for perfection or am I just confused or simply SHALLOW.
2007-03-18 03:01:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't be too harsh on yourself...yeah, the fact that you mentioned that whenever u see a pretty face you run to the person even though you have a girlfriend, is really really BAD...i mean, come on...you cant do that to the girl you are dating, its dishonesty and I'm sure as hell that you feel bad about this...
about the term "shallow" is pretty subjective, i mean may be it can be a weird phase that your going through right now...may be the beauty in a person fascinates you in a strange way and you would learn to overcome this once you meet the
"'right" person with whom your gonna spend the rest of the life. Do not worry about this too much, this thing would ware off, i mean just think about this, lets say you meet this hot girl, but after hanging out with her for a while you noticed she is boring and snotty and proud...would you still be attracted to her?
at the end of the day, nice personality would make a impression on you rather than just a pretty face...
cheer up!
2007-03-18 03:16:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nailhead_pixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, nothing wrong with you. You are just being a normal guy. When we are young, we love all pretty girl and want them for ourselves. That's ok. As you grow older, this facination will change and you will be more focused. Enjoy your life now to the fullest. However, try not to hurt anyone.
2007-03-18 10:07:30 · answer #2 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to re-assess your values in women, otherwise you're never going to settle down with one girl. Searching for perfection is always going to illusive, because you'll never find it, ever. Love isn't trying to find the perfect person, it's seeing an imperfect person perfectly.
2007-03-18 10:08:48 · answer #3 · answered by Constantine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this may change as you grow up. If you decide to get married, you will realize that you need a mature, responsible woman who wants to work with you to create the life you both desire. If you want to stay single forever, don't worry about it, just have fun.
2007-03-18 10:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by ahhihello 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you mean cuz my brother is jst like htis and it drives me nuts! but i think you need time to just get older, i don't mean this in a bad way but....grow up. it'll hopefully happen in time but you gotta put effort into it!
2007-03-18 10:07:32 · answer #5 · answered by forget_me_not 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋