he dumped her after a 2 year relationship they are friends but he keeps wanting cuddles then saying he needs a break from her but she finds it weird since they arent going out, he has agreed to hang with her on saturday an he wants her to ring him on wednesday, but the girl thinks the boy might still have feelings for her but she darent ask him, she has recently had offers by other lads who used to be the boyfriends friends if she tells the ex about these offers what will happen please help please
2007-03-18 02:54:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It would ruin the friendship of the guys and possibly cause some distrust between the guy and the girl. It's not a good idea to date friends, and somethings are better left unsaid. Just tell the friends no thanks and don't tell the ex.
2007-03-18 02:59:21 · answer #1 · answered by Mariposa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is pretty damn fffed up
i'm guessing you are the girl and my advice is this:
that guy is a bastard. the reason he dumped you is not becuase of what ever reason he told you- no, in fact he still has feelings for you (they originate below the waist)
the reason he dumped you is becuase he wants to explore other girls and he wants to be single for a while and yet still be "loveing life" if you know what i mean...... and have a lot of hookups---- he wants you to be one of them
don't. you want to be THE ONE not the 1/14 if you know what i'm saying---
oh and about the guys friend- if you like him, go for it- but bcareful, because he might be jsut as bitchy as his buddy, yeah?
good luck and god bless
2007-03-18 10:04:25 · answer #2 · answered by KB 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend should do what she feels this guy may not have feelings for her anymore but feels taht since there is a past it is easier to have a "buddy" if you know what i am saying. She has to be truthful to herself and do what she feels she needs to do.
Jeremy
2007-03-18 10:00:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jeremy C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the relation ship will be done for good .... either the guy have to speak up and say what he feels or the girls have to start convs. as joke and tell him do you believe that dork asked me on date. and she gotta have to watch closely the eyes will say every thing
good luck
2007-03-18 10:02:09 · answer #4 · answered by walid k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow thats quite confusing.
Has she tried to move on?
If not then I suggest that she does.
But good luck with this situation.
2007-03-18 09:59:51 · answer #5 · answered by Imagegirl101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is just playing you. Go out with the other guys and have fun.
2007-03-18 10:00:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋