I can't talk to this girl...Help please.?

Question

Ok, there is this girl I really like & she is so beautiful and smart, she is hispanic and speaks spanish ten times better then she does english. Although she speaks english really well it's hard to understand her with her accent. I asked her out about a week ago & she smiled and said she want's to get to know me more first..Which is understandable since I hardly talk to her...The next day I got a note from her in the morning saying, sorry but I want to get to know you more before I go out with you.. All i'm asking is for tips on how to make her laugh or things to say because I find it hard to think of anything when i'm walking with her down the hall after school. Oh yea i'm 15 in the 9th grade & a lot of other girls like me for my looks so I know i'm not ugly..

Answer 1

You should get to know her better. Say "hi" in the halls, or tell a funny joke to her, or compliment her. Good luck!

Answer 2

this is from an internet newsletter..it should help some and give you ideas...even when you're older..

When you got a number from a really
attractive woman and want to organize a
date with her, you gotta be a little smart.

If you want to GET her, then you can't
just take her out for a drink, a movie or a
nice candle-light dinner. Why?

Because it DOESN'T make her feel that
gut level emotion called attraction towards
you.

You can't just do what every other guy
has done before. If you do, then you will
get what all the other guys she has dated
got too: a kiss on the cheek perhaps and
a new female FRIEND.

And we don't want that to happen at
all costs.

So, in order to be successful when it
comes to the initial date, you need to do
something like most men. DON'T spend
any money on her, it just shows her that
you want to BUY her affection. A very bad
idea and it never works.

So WHERE do you take her?

Go to the park, tag her and say
"You're IT" and let her chase you. Go
windows shopping and let her decide
what would look good on you.

Say "Do you think that bikini over there
would suit me? Nah, I think I'm just a little
but TOO sexy for that don't you think so?"
*evil grin*.

If you are being cocky and funny about
the whole thing and just have fun, she will
get ATTRACTED to you.

Oh and then there is TICKLING. Don't ask
me why but it never fails, as long as you have
built up some attraction already.

What about the confidence? Well, you can
show her you are confident just by teasing her
and jokingly ordering her around.

You can show that you make decisions and
you AREN'T afraid of what she thinks of you.

Then there's the surprise element.

Instead of saying "Would you like to go to
the park?" I know, it doesn't sound too good
but it can be" try saying "Lets go to the park,
we'll race and you'll never get to chase after me."

Now I know many of you guys will like the
sound of taking a girl to a park because its
cheap and its true. You don't have to spend
a single dime.

Does it WORK?

You bet. Where else do you think most
playboys take ALL their dates to? It's always
shopping, a cup of coffee or the park.

Forget the candle-light dinner, the cinema
and your regular bar for the first date. Stick to
what works and what is best for creating attraction:
The shopping malls, coffee shops or the park.

Answer 3

Hi, Give the girl time, remember she did not say no, just that she wants to know you better. When you see her in the hall or after school, "just say hi, how are you doing?" Just go slow and steady and I am sure if you treat her well she will go out with you.

Answer 4

OK dear ¨you¨, (your letter is very cute), the thing that she speaks Spanish or not, is nothing that you have to worry about; focus in been yourself when you are around her and when you speak to her! Don´t ask anyone for tips...please! be spontaneous, be true to yourself, to your feelings, show what you have inside, and never try to be someone that you are not just to get attention from girls.....just be YOU, and if she is the one for you...she´ll fall in to your arms for sure!! good luck!

Answer 5

Loving someone is only a thought away first of all your dealing with a spansh girl she not like a american girl if she love's you she will love you she will be so jellous of you if you even talk to a nother girl tell her you love her spanish speaking accent give her much heart felt compiment on who she is you know who you are tell about you talk about food example rice, beans fried pork spanish people love to talk about food give it a try e-mail me back lett me know how it went my add is [e-mail] good luck

Answer 6

its actually very easy to talk to girls. Be yourself, dont act like someone you're not. Just be funny in general.. just ask questions and keep the conversation going. Even grab her msn address and talk to her online if you are shy.

Answer 7

Relax...
Let it flow...
Since you say girls like you well let her see it.
Obviously don't go snogging their faces off in front of her but perhaps flirt a little bit with them.
Listen to her.
Ask questions about her.
Tell about yourself only if she asks.
Be honest.
Be romantic.
and trust me it's only a crush!

Answer 8

Take heed of what she said and be friends to her 1st and you are 50% towards success. The most important part towards any gal is to make her feel comfortable with you. Cheer.

Answer 9

try to get to know better her culture and then try to ask about her what she likes, try to find out what you have in common, what you like both... then try to get something that may connect both of you, something that you can do together..? playing eg. basketball? Dance? Hang out outside school...

Answer 10

dude ive had this before, learn some spanish, look up spanish phrases on yahoo.com, she will be impressed, just dont say anything stupid. say: Tu es muy linda, mi gusta mucho.. just totally say something to her in spanish, i insist..

the "canadian"..