when i say 'jackass' i mean him and his friends do crazy things, and basically look for trouble.
should i not care what he does, or should i really tell him to grow up?
buy the way hes 24, im a little younger
2007-03-18 02:32:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's obviously immature so you either wait for him to grow up or if it bothers you that much find an adult to have a relationship with
2007-03-18 02:36:05 · answer #1 · answered by felicity_pink 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this is when some people will wonder why you got involved with a guy, then want to change him.
You can express how you feel about his behavior, but if that's how he prefers to act then you need to decide if you can tolerate it (and not bug him about it at all) or if it's time for you to move on because he's not a good match for you.
When you get with someone, you accept who they are and like them for who they are...if they aren't the type of person you want to be with, then you can discuss what troubles you (and realize they may have some aspects of your personality to address as well, so don't let it turn into a name-calling fight), or you can decide you made a poor decision and bid them adieu.
2007-03-18 09:37:11 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell him about his "childish ways" but im assuming he already knows and if it bothers you, let him know. IF he does not change and you dont like it, i suggest you move on as it is only going to continue to aggravate the relationship, but if it does not bother you and he does not want to change, leave him alone, "a hard head makes a soft behind".
2007-03-18 09:37:46 · answer #3 · answered by elivabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One rule to go by is never go into any relationship trying to change them because they rarely do. Your choice is either except it or move on because unfortunately some people never grow up. Downside for these people is life passes them up in a hurry........
2007-03-18 09:59:42 · answer #4 · answered by miester44 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Felicity is right on with her answer
also, you can never Make someone change or change or "fix" them, especially a guy like this.. just as nobody is going to "change" you, right?
Everything is a choice and you should prob make yours..the right one before it's too late...
Sometimes the hard choice is the correct one..
good luck
2007-03-18 09:39:59 · answer #5 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his behavior is bothering or affecting you, then you need to confront him and try to get him to solve the problem. If you don't see a difference after you all have a talk (or however you decide to handle the problem), then you need to let him go.
2007-03-18 09:50:28 · answer #6 · answered by Angel Face 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im 20 years old and i still act immature but thats what my gf and a couple of other people like about me. they always told to be myself around them
2007-03-18 09:49:30 · answer #7 · answered by mysterybryant 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him he's being way too immature for a 24-year-old and he needs to grow up. tell him you're SERIOUS, and he needs to stop. now.
2007-03-18 09:35:54 · answer #8 · answered by *marisa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what makes you think you can change him, or that he wants to change? maybe hes happy with the person that he is, and doesnt need a meddling woman trying to change who he is. If his stupid behavior is that upsetting then maybe you need to reassess your relationship, and move on with your life
2007-03-18 09:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe its his habbit and u shhud tell ur parents or talk to him seriusly and tell him to stop this crap tell him tht its enough if he doesnt change then its up to him maybe people like him for this attitude
2007-03-18 09:39:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋