Ummm there is this kid in my school. He likes me but I don't like him. Well first of all he is in S.P.E.D. and secondly our families are friends and we see each other a lot! We go camping together and our moms talk on the phone almost every day. He keeps asking me out.. but he is not understanding that I only like him as a friend. What should I do the next time he asks me out, but I don't want to hurt his feelings. Well to top it off my brother and his brothers r really good friends and my boifriend just broke up with me.
thanks
2007-03-18 02:29:45 · 8 answers · asked by soccastah 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just tell him the truth....say "Okay, look. i honestly really dont want to hurt your feelings, but i only like you as a friend. if you keep doing this, i might not even like you that way. please understand that...i'm sure there's a better girl out there for you."
which might be all lame and a big lie, but it'll make him feel a little better and he might stop asking you out.
<3
good luck!
2007-03-18 02:34:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time he asks you out just say I don't want to hurt your feelings but I only like you as a friend and nothing more than that I hope you understand. That's what I would tell him good luck and sorry about you and your ex boyfriend.
2007-03-18 02:43:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be direct but in a nice way. Tell him that you appreciate him like a brother and a friend and that you would like to go out with him as friends, but nothing more.
2007-03-18 02:34:06 · answer #3 · answered by Pabs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-18 16:43:00 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, you may have to hurt his feeling some, just to let him know that he is a great friend and you enjoy talking and laughing with him, but you are not interested in taking the relationship any further. Be firm, but not angry. If that doesn't work, I don't know what will.
2007-03-18 02:45:29 · answer #5 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep telling him no. Obvioulsy he thinks persistence is the key. Explain to him that you don't like him in that way and that if he keeps on pestering you like this you wont want to be his friend either. Explain to him that your friendship is all you want from him and for him to be mature about it and stop hassling you.
2007-03-18 02:33:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that he is attractive and so on, but not to you... tell him the truth that you look for something else in a guy than what he has...
2007-03-18 02:33:02 · answer #7 · answered by kamqx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance
2007-03-18 02:33:52 · answer #8 · answered by ICECOLD 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋