How do I make a girl like me?
She is 17 and she is very good with her studies(2 points for O levels) and sports.
Sadly though, I am the direct opposite
I am 16 years old and extreamly poor(48 points for TERM 1 results) with my studies and sports.
Also, I have autism, it makes me difficult to communicate with people and makes me unique from normal people.
Although my studies are poor, I am talented in graphic design/web design and product design.
The first time i saw her i couldn't get her off my head. I kept on thinking about her, how to date her and etc.
I already gotten her handphone number, now what next?
Please help me! =O
2007-03-18 02:25:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Autism
For more infomation of autism, my scale of autism is 1/5 for the australlian scale. Not so severe =)
2007-03-18 02:34:09 · update #1
ok well you have reached as far as getting the handphone number so you are doing good! i suggest that if you want her to like you, you have to look and feel your best at all times!! try to communicate with her even if its only a smile or eye contact...this will catch her eye...maybe start a conversation with her about the weather or maybe ask her how her days been...good luck hopefully this will work! it did for the guy who liked me!!
2007-03-18 02:36:22 · answer #1 · answered by xxx_amber_baby.gurl_xxx 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-03-18 09:32:12 · answer #2 · answered by Gary G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter what you are...If you are good.... Girls accepted what you really are. There's no count about grades or anything. Be kind, and courteous.. okay let say that you are autism, but try not to talk to much so that she will understand. Listen what she saying and respond that's all. So that way you could communicate much better.
Just plain you.
Try to ask her out....
Just always remember to be friendly.
2007-03-18 09:40:54 · answer #3 · answered by phew!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her.. Show off what you are good at.. Impress upon her that you are a gentle person. Let her know you care for her by your actions. She will be yours in due time
2007-03-18 09:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by AdultMale 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, i know this isnt what you wanna hear but its very hard to make someone like you. your best bet sounds like its to boost your sports and grades. you should show her some of those designs and stuff, most girls like that kinda stuff. try to let her know you with out becoming best friends.
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-03-18 09:42:43 · answer #5 · answered by Mo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u have her handphone no. u should talk to her and explain to her how u feel. That always works for me from guys.
2007-03-18 09:34:27 · answer #6 · answered by breana c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok your first problem you try to make her like you,,,, an you trying to hard,, , to get a girl are any one to like you is their choice,,, but ,i say talk to her, show her you a ok persom,, dont push your self on her,, most find a pushey person to be very rude, an a turn off
2007-03-18 09:32:04 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start chatting on MSN, BEBO, MYSPACE to her.
Then start saying hello in school or wherever you are.
Use your good attributes (such as you good artistic skills) to impress her.
If she doesn't respond you know she's not worth it.
2007-03-18 09:30:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
JUST BE YOURSELF, NOT EVERYONE IS BOOKSMART, SOME OF US ARE BETTER AT HANDS-ON TYPE STUFF, BESIDES THAT'S NOT WHAT MAKES A PERSON SPECIAL....JUST BE NICE TO HER, NOT PUSHY, GET TO BE FREINDS FIRST AND WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT TELL HER HOW YOU FEEL. TAKE YOUR TIME...
2007-03-18 09:30:33 · answer #9 · answered by JO 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
are you like seriously serious?
ummmmm all i can say is good luck with that...
<3
2007-03-18 09:30:42 · answer #10 · answered by *marisa* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋