VERY VERY VERY VERY VERY UPSET!! please!!! read (crying)?

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I'm very sorry this is so long I'm just VERY UPSET and need to let this out so please read!!!!

PLEASE I'M SO UPSET RIGHT NOW PLEASE!! i'm sorry i didn't mean for it to be this long i just need to let this all out!

PLEASE TAKE THE TIME TO READ THIS PLEASE!! I AM CRYING SO MUCH I CAN BARLEY TYPE!!!!

I have two best friends "Tori" and "Rachel." I'm a senior in high school. Tori and i got into a fight in the beginning of the year. She made fun of me because i thought Abraham Lincoln was black! (HE IS BLACK!!) I know i am right! I accident "swung at her" and hit her in the face. She had to get ice but it was on accident. I apologized to her about a million times. After that she went around to the whole school and told everyone how I had hit her and people have been making fun of me ever since! I am crying all the time because of that! Anyways recently within the past month she did apologize for her actions and has been sticking up for me quite a bit.

…this is where all of the problems start…Tori, Rachel, and I was all supposed to go to prom together with a group of other people! We had to buy tickets this week. Rachel Told me Tori and her boyfriend and everyone else to buy tickets on Wednesday. That was the last day to buy tickets. We all agreed to bring our money then. Tuesday while we were walking up to the field house for track practice Rachel was talking really badly about Tori calling her dumb and etc. Little did we realize that Tori was right behind us. So we get into the field house and Rachel dropped the bomb on me that neither me nor Tori nor her boyfriend were invited to prom anymore. She told us that she had already filled her table with 10 people, the limo was full and the hotel was booked already. She apologized for forgetting to tell us all of this. I was crying hysterically. I don’t have many friends and Rachel is my only one true friend. Now at that time I couldn’t go to prom because of it.

Tori then flipped out at Rachel and told her that she heard everything that she had said about her while we were walking to the field house. She then told me that Rachel was talking really really badly about me! She told me that Rachel said she did not want to go to the college she got into because she found out I would be attending there too. Tori then admitted that she had not always been the “best friend to me” but was recently sticking up for me. (WHICH SHE HAS BEEN) and that’s the truth. Any who Rachel denies ever saying that. She told me why she would ever say a thing like that if she was rooming with me at college. Which makes sense? Rachel then said she hadn’t always said “nice” things about me but she would never say anything like that.

I don’t know what to do now!! I’m so upset…now Tori said she’s not going to prom and going to go to her boyfriends prom at his school because she wants nothing to do with Rachel and is upset by what Rachel had done and wants to avoid drama. Tori invited me to go with her and her boyfriend to Virginia the day of our prom.

But…then Rachel said she had enough room for me in the limo and such on Wednesday the day I was buying the tickets so now I am going to prom! But I’m still upset by what happened. She wouldn’t Allow Tori to come but Tori said she doesn’t care anymore because all of this is childish drama that she refuses to get involved in.

A recent conversation i had with Tori

Tori: not to bring up an argument or anything...but...why don't you trust and believe what i told you about Rachel?

Me: b/c i myself do not have proof and i cannot accuse someone without valid proof
i know about the talking behind the back thing

Me: but there is not like any certain occassion where i can pinpoint and say she lied to me
thats y

Me: unless you can pinpoint a certain occassion at which both you and i were present and she lied to me, then i dont have reason to accuse her

Tori: no offense or anything but are you THAT BLIND? that you cannot see that she has been lying i'm not trying to be mean or a jerk or anything I'm just trying to be a friend right now and i don't want to see you get hurt in the long run

Me: lying about what an instancego ahead im listening if u said that u were going to stay out then please DO SO

Tori: ok do you REALLY HONESTLY belive that every single time you ask her to hang out she is babysitting? Honestly think about it logically. How often can someone babysit? I work with her and MANY TIMES she would tell you that she's working when in reality she's NOT THERE! You even said it YOURSELF she picks her other friends over you! So why would you choose to be friends with someone like that?

Me: b/c the babysitting i do believe her about
the work - i have no idea and she said that she is going to put forth more of an effort to hang out with me

Me: and i realized i really should not be talking to you about this b/c its not your business
so either bring up another subj. or i leave

Tori: fine i'm done trying to help you! Do not come back to me in a week complaing about how she hurt your feelings then!

big problem...TORI WAS RIGHT!!! Rachel told me she didn't want to be friends with me anymore! She said she didn't want me coming to prom and didn't want to associate with someone like me!!!!

the problem is i told Tori off and accused her of lieing! I told Tori i believed Rachel...NOW TORI won't talk to me and all she can say to me is "I told you so" And that she can't stand this drama and refuses to get involved with any of it anymore OR offer me advice!

I REALIZE TORI HAS BEEN TELLING ME RACHEL IS NO GOOD FOR ABOUT THE PAST 2 YEARS!! BUT STILL.....

-what do i do now???-

Answer 1

wtf!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! abraham lincoln is white.i really hope this is a joke.

Answer 2

I know how you feel iv done the same Thing And My best friend had told every one that i hit her even though It wasn't on perpes. I never felt so Humiuated In my Hole intier life because of that time i hit her.... I still fell sad. Also i still think she has a huge Broose From it :( But she Never Belived me that i was sorry And im 9 years old!! And She was 8. When i Hit Her(Not On perpes) She told my teacher and i told her that it wasen't On perpes. But she said -You cant Hit some one By Accident and now you have Detention for Two Monthes. Then i said THATS just PUIR HARSH! When I said That she Called my Mom and i got to trouble again. Of course i forgot what had happend. And My best friend Never Talked to me again. But i did. Each Morning I said i was sorry. But owno She woulden't Lissen to me. she was my almost girlfriend too.(-I hope you feel Better one day Me too-) And I Better let you Get back to what you where Doing And thank you for taking the time to Read this.... :)

Answer 3

i think you should NEVER EVER EVER again talk to rachel, she is such a b i t c h.. i mean while you were being a good friend and all she was backstabbing you.. ugh.. i think you should apologize to tori but dont expect her to forgive you.. it hurts to find out that your friend wouldnt believe you. but hey i dont blame you.. its really hard to tell whos lying and telling the truth, only in the end the truth will surface.. then you gotta fix the problem.. jst apologize to tori and delete rachel from your life. i know its hard. but you have to do it.. move on. but if she wants to be friends with you say.. "ok" dont do anything bad to her.. maybe just greet her when she greets you but dont get close with her anymore.. learn from your mistake. trusting her. then just maybe make a letter to tori pointing out your mistake and how shes been a good friend.. etc.. if she wont talk to you then.. maybe.. um.. look for another friend. i know its hard but anyway youre going to college, you're gonna meet new people.. dont let your past experience affect the things you can be in the future.. take care ok? next time choose your friends carefully.. oh yeah.. you should watch "the pursuit of happyness" it really made me think and get a drive to be determined to reach my dreams.. :P take care.. goodluck!

Answer 4

Tori will forgive you. She is your true friend. She hurt and rightly so. Give her a cool down time. APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE APOLOGIZE!!! She feels she was always a true friend and they are VERY hard to come by. Let her forgive you. Im pretty sure she will. Ask if theres anything you can do to help mend the friend and most importantly, see that she now has your best interests in mind and listen to her advice when she sees someone is snaking you.

Answer 5

This is the most incredible stuff I've ever read. Grow up. Tori was right. It's immature and childish drama, and you did not "accidentally" take a swing at her. Oh, and Abraham Lincoln was white.

Answer 6

Tori was a real friend but never beg anyone for friendship. Never talk to Rachel again, she's a horrible friend. If you and tori can work things out that's great but if she continues to ignore you after giving her time then just do your own thing.

Answer 7

Sounds like I got in on the middle of a BAD movie!

Answer 8

It seens like you go to a big school so you should find new friends that will stay true to you. I hope that this will all blow over soon.

Answer 9

See,you have the answer,get new friends.Friends that care for you honey.

Answer 10

these dont sound like mates to me get rid of them you will find other friends you cant stay mates with these two girls because it sounds like there both stirring things just to get you to fall out with one of them wen u go to college you will find new and better friends let me know wat happens

Answer 11

try making new friends, they will be better!