i asked if anyone hates there mum too how is this a violation
2007-03-18 02:24:06 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
hey ask the same question again but use the word dislike same thing just a better way to put it and I'm with you on this I've disliked my mum for years
2007-03-18 02:38:00 · answer #1 · answered by steve738494 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
My mum was a rubbish mother too; I don't hate her any more - I try and understand the forces that shaped her life and turned her into the monster she was to us. Hating uses a lot of energy; so I guess I stopped hating her - I just feel nothing at all. Maybe your Q was removed because of the way you phrased it, but it doesn't remove the feelings you have.
2007-03-18 10:19:04 · answer #2 · answered by marie m 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
it is probably because hate is a really strong word.
the world if is filled with it nowadays, hence all the wars and prejudice.
so, it's not particularly conventional to 'hate' the person who gave birth to you.
granted, she may not be the best mom in the world. but nobody gets lessons. and some people are just naturally good at being parents.
you really shouldn't hate your mom. you dont have to like her and love her with all your might. but at least respect the fact that she did give you life.
maybe you should try talking to her about your feelings toward her and her actions that make you feel this way towards her.
2007-03-18 09:32:18 · answer #3 · answered by RIF 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Cannot see why your question got removed, perhaps the word "hate" did it, but there must be people out there who do hate their mums.
2007-03-18 20:34:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kirks Folley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how much you hate your mum, she is where you came from. Maybe you should place yourself in her shoes and see how it is like to be hate by her own child. I am sure she will hate herself more to think of the reasons why she made you hate her so much.
Take some time to think for yourself and talk things over if you don't like what she did to you. Maybe she did not even realise her own mistakes but it is good to make her understand what you want from her. No mother on earth would like to be hate by her own children. And not forgetting, you as a child should learn how to forgive your elders .... especially the one who brought you into this world.
2007-03-18 09:54:54 · answer #5 · answered by cecilia4u 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I agree this isnt a violation. Some mums are rubbish and do more harm than good!
2007-03-18 09:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by sazj27 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
to hate you mom are your daed is like hateing part of your self,,,, we as parent may not alway be right, but we try our best,,,it going to come a day, you will regreat ,these words,, they come back to you an walk with you till the day you die,,,, you got a mom an a dasd,, but when they gone,, you learn , this,,,,,,,they love you, they care for you, an some of the thing you done an did, what made them come down on you,,,,i feel for you, for one day you going to have kids, an you see, what being a perant all about
2007-03-18 10:52:50 · answer #7 · answered by ghostwalker077 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It was removed? Lol Just rephrase it!
2007-03-18 13:09:03 · answer #8 · answered by Danni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people!! Never mind just rephrase the question lol
2007-03-18 10:57:32 · answer #9 · answered by Lisa P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some people get joy out of reporting people !!!!! and they are the sort that dont realise other people have different experiences and opinions to others (they are sado"s)
2007-03-18 09:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋